Whipple Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 I've been dating my bf close to 6 months now. For the first 5 months or so, things were fantastic. We are so compatible, enjoy many of the same things, same life goals and values, same backgrounds, really attracted to each other, etc. It just works. A month ago, however, I found out that I will have to move 200 miles away for work. I've been internally devastated since then. My bf and I discussed it a while back and we've agreed to take one day at a time and see what happens when I move. But I just have this ****ty feeling that things are going to end horribly. All of his past relationships ended because they were LDR and they never got to visit each other. My gut feeling is telling me that right before I move away he's going to dump me. No, he hasn't given me any explicit evidence but my gut feeling should be good enough. Now I just want to push him away. It's weird though because I vacillate between wanting to act like a bitch around him to push him away but other times I want to be so clingy because I don't want him to leave me. I don't know why I'm doing this. I feel like I love him so much that I need to push him away. Maybe I'm scared about being hurt? I don't know...I need advice. If more details are needed let me know.
Eddie Edirol Posted April 17, 2011 Posted April 17, 2011 Sounds like youre trying to control the situation. Want to dump him so its easier on you. That wont work, it will be just as bad. If you think that he wont tell you if he is thinking of checking out, all you can do is try to get the truth out of him indirectly. Keep talking about what you can do together when you move. See what he says. If you arent on the same page, then you can end it.
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