griffinchicken53 Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 Couldn't fit it in the title, but does anyone worry the SO will find the posts where you were asking questions about them on here. Just curious, I think someone I like might be showing interest, but if she saw on here I've been pining away for a year, would it weird her out?
oaks Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 Assuming your name isn't actually Griffin Chicken then you've got a chance of staying under the radar.
mogul Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 Assuming your name isn't actually Griffin Chicken then you've got a chance of staying under the radar. It is a pretty logical fear. I am actually pretty paranoid myself. It isn't hard to add things up and put it together.
Ginger Beer Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 I was going to make this thread the other day. There must be at least one LS occasion where a SO has stumbled across the forum and signed up, resulting in both parties going at each other on the forum? If my SO saw the stuff I'd posted, I have no idea what she'd think.
MissJoness Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 It's very possible. Maybe you shouldn't be so exact with your posts kinda change the details around for more anonymity
jane100 Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 As long as you didn't misrepresent anything on purpose they are how you truly feel. Too many here hide who they are, hide what they need, and hurt themselves in the process. Perhaps you will be vindicated and perhaps you won't. You need to let go of your fear and not have such a tight handle on what you want or require. Becoming so intensely invested in the current happenings of your life sets you up to fall apart when things change. This doesn't mean to abandon all emotion and attachment but nothing you hope to keep will ever be permanent. Everything comes and finally goes. You need to be able to flow with the flux. If a SO wants to leave due to a post here then would it be any better for you if they stayed for the facade irl? How long can you keep up an act without stumbling? I can't see it maintaining mental stability or creating a sense of fulfillment. If anything it will drive you mad and you'll only get worse. This is an excellent post and to the heart of the matter. I would like to print it off and keep it! (however the small caveat surely is that there are manipulative people out there some people might feel unsure about and like to protect themselves from)
Ruby Slippers Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 I was going to make this thread the other day. There must be at least one LS occasion where a SO has stumbled across the forum and signed up, resulting in both parties going at each other on the forum? If my SO saw the stuff I'd posted, I have no idea what she'd think. I am 99% sure this guy I dated for a while saw the LS window in my Google preview browser, created an account and responded directly to a question I asked about him, then created another identity and began posting regularly. He's an excellent writer and very intelligent, so I enjoyed his posts, even though they were 75% rants. I wouldn't be surprised if he still checks up on me here from time to time. But I don't really care. There's nothing I say here that I wouldn't say to his face.
Author griffinchicken53 Posted April 17, 2011 Author Posted April 17, 2011 Assuming your name isn't actually Griffin Chicken then you've got a chance of staying under the radar. Family Guy.......Peter "GRIFFIN" fights the Giant "CHICKEN" then just chose a random number. It's not so much topics about her, but other topics i've either started or commented on. These listed are topics i've started, most don't pertain to anyone of interest. but they could be off-putting i suppose. [COLOR=#990000]Waiting to be settled on[/COLOR] [COLOR=#990000]I would welcome being in the friend zone[/COLOR] [COLOR=#990000]admitting i have a problem[/COLOR] [COLOR=#990000]Tired, fustrated, anxious, and oh yea, horny:([/COLOR] [COLOR=#990000]severe embarrassment and anxiety[/COLOR] [COLOR=#990000]first date, could you leave your boobs at home?[/COLOR] [COLOR=#990000]When and why women go for the nice guy[/COLOR] [COLOR=#990000]so you used to be a stripper???[/COLOR] [COLOR=#990000]sex chat buddy[/COLOR] [COLOR=#990000]girl wants to see it[/COLOR] [COLOR=#990000]guilt-ridden pervert[/COLOR] [COLOR=#990000]do women ever ask guy friends sex questions?[/COLOR] [COLOR=#990000]was accused of stalking[/COLOR] [COLOR=#990000]someone doesn't like you, would you rather the brutal truth or no answer[/COLOR] [COLOR=#990000]sometimes think of female aquaintances in a sexual way[/COLOR] [COLOR=#990000]don't want to be rude but want to be heard[/COLOR] [COLOR=#990000]perplexed by boobs[/COLOR] [COLOR=#990000]all my friends seem to want to keep me single[/COLOR] [COLOR=#990000]losing progress in being more socially outgoing[/COLOR] [COLOR=#990000]friends forget me[/COLOR] [COLOR=#990000]severe anxiety[/COLOR] [COLOR=#990000]high maintenance vs. low maintenance[/COLOR]
Author griffinchicken53 Posted April 17, 2011 Author Posted April 17, 2011 copied and pasted topics, didn't know they would be pasted back as links.
Professor X Posted April 17, 2011 Posted April 17, 2011 I don't see the problem? Are you afraid she'll know you got your own opinions?! *takes out the whip* Whatever I type here my SO already knows my opinion about it, so I personally wouldn't mind.
iris219 Posted April 17, 2011 Posted April 17, 2011 I LOVE that two of your previous posts are about how defenseless you are around breasts! If I ever meet a Family Guy obsessed, boob fearing man who's trying unsuccessfully to not stare at my chest, I'll know it's you! Wait, that's most guys.
welikeincrowds Posted April 18, 2011 Posted April 18, 2011 So what if they do? I am very grateful to be welcomed here and consider this place a sanctuary. (Well, maybe not when I'm reading yet another "size" thread, but whatever.) As long as you take the appropriate, necessary steps to protect your identity and respect the identities of those you discuss, you a) shouldn't be found, and b) shouldn't feel guilty or responsible for any consequences that arise from someone else's snooping. The real consequences come from your SO violating your sacred, safe place -- that's the ****ed up part, and that would beget my defense. I wouldn't ever give this away -- not in the event that someone finds me, and especially not to the fear of someone finding me.
Author griffinchicken53 Posted April 18, 2011 Author Posted April 18, 2011 I LOVE that two of your previous posts are about how defenseless you are around breasts! If I ever meet a Family Guy obsessed, boob fearing man who's trying unsuccessfully to not stare at my chest, I'll know it's you! Wait, that's most guys. boob fearing? i love that. i'm just scared some chick is gonna put them around my face and suffocate me......oh wait....that's wishful thinking... for all i know, she's on here already giving me advice about herself.....
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