JennaK Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 So, months ago my guy friend was bugging me, asking if I like his friend. I finally said yes, so clearly the guy found out I liked him. I told very few people that I liked him, but I did tell this one girl and I completely regret it. She talked to this guy a bit after that and they were kind of friends. After a while he asked me out and I said yes, but he never carried out with the plans so we didn't go out. Eventually he just stopped talking to me. It's been a while since he stopped talking to me. The girl who I told I liked him asked me last weekend if I still like him. Him stopping communication made it seem completely over so I said no, I didn't still like him (like a reasonable person would say). Apparently she's going to the movies with him next week. This pisses me off because they really weren't friends before I was there, he asked me out but never carried through, (I really don't want to sound like a total dick when I say this) but she's not as good looking as me and he stopped communication. Was this my fault? If not, who's fault was it? I just need closure with this.
anwa Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 Don't think there's any fault involved. I just think he doesn't like you enough to "go out" with you. He'd rather date the other girl. He was keeping his options open. There's no problem. Just sounds like you're jealous that he is going out with this other girl and not you. I'd find someone who actually likes you He's out there
TigerCub Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 So, months ago my guy friend was bugging me, asking if I like his friend. I finally said yes, so clearly the guy found out I liked him. I told very few people that I liked him, but I did tell this one girl and I completely regret it. She talked to this guy a bit after that and they were kind of friends. After a while he asked me out and I said yes, but he never carried out with the plans so we didn't go out. Eventually he just stopped talking to me. It's been a while since he stopped talking to me. The girl who I told I liked him asked me last weekend if I still like him. Him stopping communication made it seem completely over so I said no, I didn't still like him (like a reasonable person would say). Apparently she's going to the movies with him next week. This pisses me off because they really weren't friends before I was there, he asked me out but never carried through, (I really don't want to sound like a total dick when I say this) but she's not as good looking as me and he stopped communication. Was this my fault? If not, who's fault was it? I just need closure with this. It seems like you want it to be this girl's fault. I'm not sure what you're basing it on. She even asked you if you were interested in the guy before she decided to let him take her out, then since you said no, so she went ahead with it - sounds like a nice girl to me. But for some reason you think that she's somehow responsible for this guy not carrying through with his offer to take you out. If he really wanted to date you, he would have taken you out, simple as that. I'm sorry that it didn't quite work out for you, but its no one's fault. I'm sure you'll find someone else
Professor X Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 A closure with what exactly do you want? Nothing has happened. He never took you out for a date and he has barely spoke to you. I bet you're very young as you've mentioned you're better looking which is completely and utterly irrelevant and only takes away from you. Don't be so jaundiced.
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