I have no idea what the hell is going on with me and my wife

[joe and casey 3327]

I dont understand what is going on with my wife. She moves out of the apartment we lived in together and moves in with this guy who she tells me that they are just friends. I mean I trust my wife and that nothing will happen between them. I am she calls me on the phone and we talk for two hours about how much she miss me but she doesnt miss the way we fought and verything. But then she tells me that she Loves me and then starts to tease about how she shaved her pussy and ask me if I want a nice wet pussy that is smooth an hairless. Then she goes on about how she wishes I could be inside her right now and then says how bad do you want me. And then the next time I talk to her she is all pissed off telling me that she is done with me and that she wants a divorce. I dont understand what the hell is going with her? First she talks sexual to me and then she tells me that she wants to give up on us and the marriage.

 

Can anyone give me any ideas on what the hell is going on. Can anyone give me any thoughts of what is going on?

[whichwayisup]

I replied to your other thread in the sex section..Ignore that advice.

 

Your wife is sleeping with someone else. A woman doesn't separate and move into a guys house if they are "just" friends.

 

She's messing with you! It's cruel what she's doing.

 

Start by ignoring her. Don't answer the phone when she calls, or return emails/texts. She moved out, so let her live life without you in it.

 

Sorry you're hurting.

[BB07]

Wow......I usually cringe when posters automatically start saying that your wife is having an affair but in this case, I'm sorry to say that it would be spot on to say that.

 

I'm sorry but as WWIU said, a woman does not move into another mans apt unless there is something going on when she is already married.

 

Also she is being a real baitch in the way she is treating you with the phone calls. Just refuse to play her game. Make her think you are glad she is gone.

[seibert253]

Yeap, a woman doesn't leave her husband, then move with another man unless somethings going on.

 

The hott phone calls, she's toying with you my friend. Very cruel IMO.

 

Read up and the 180 and start right now.

Contact an attorney and protect yourself.

 

If I were you I'd have D papers drawn, then have her served.

Let her know she has a choice, move home and fix what she broke, or D. Only two options.

[Ballerfamily]

She is having major sex with this guy... shaving, its the new her...to tease you with that, is down right cruel....she is toying with you to see how you'll react.....you better ignor and go NC....Wow, she would never see the light of my bedroom again. that is for sure...

[linwood]

She moved out and shaved her pussy and you think she`s not sleeping with the new guy she just moved in with?

 

Dude....cut her off, file the papers, move on.

[Scott72]

She's having an affair. Don't be in denial. Either she comes back home and you two go to counseling to figure it out, or you need to move on immediately.