Imajerk17 Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 Mmmm Lucky One, aren't you lucky? Be careful though, tomorrow you might wake up to ten private messages from him. I say, go for the gift. I mean, it's the last day of class, what could it hurt? Your dignity since she's forced to refuse? Her job if she accepts it? Please, neither of those things are important. Obviously not to you anyway. Go for it! And let us know how it turns out. But keep us suspenseful and don't let us in on what you really have up your sleeve until that fateful day, okay? Don't want to ruin the surprise! That's right. Hey, a restraining order is only a piece of paper, right?
Author one goal Posted April 16, 2011 Author Posted April 16, 2011 Yeah. Do that. Matter of fact, ask her if she and the Dept Head both want to go with you, and then do a menage a trois. That will surely liven up this same old, same old, boring crap that you keep spouting. I am done with you (unless I get seriously bored AND have one more glass of wine). I never told the teacher she is hot. How would the teacher know if I only liked her for her looks?
dreamingoftigers Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 but even when I ask them out for the first time they say no. I never told the teacher she is hot. How would the teacher know if I only liked her for her looks? Probably because of the way you singularly focus on a woman's looks....duh. You aren't exactly cryptic. Hey you could meet a really hot lady cop if you push your teacher much further, wouldn't that be a funny story for the grandkids?
Imajerk17 Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 Hey you could meet a really hot lady cop if you push your teacher much further, wouldn't that be a funny story for the grandkids? You're assuming he's going to reproduce.
SxB Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 I was thinking the last day of the semester if I bought her a card, and maybe a $20 giftcard to somewhere, would that at least maybe be able to get me her personal email addy, or number to keep in touch with her? Or would that be a bad thing because she might think I'm trying to get her to give me a better grade? Some one is already either going to like you or they won't, if you buy them something it won't make a difference if they already dislike you.
oaks Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 Or would that be a bad thing because she might think I'm trying to get her to give me a better grade? Get this idea signed off by the dept head first, to avoid such an accusation. In fact, you should consider copying all further emails to your teacher to the dept head, too.
Author one goal Posted April 16, 2011 Author Posted April 16, 2011 In fact, you should consider copying all further emails to your teacher to the dept head, too. Why? I don't want her to see what emails I sent her in the past? I mean do you think the teacher saved those emails I sent her asking her out? That's kinda embarassing if she showed them to the dept head or dean? I just don't understand why she was weired out by me asking her out and showing interest. I mean shes at least 10 years older than me but still. She's taught there ever since she graduated college so I'm sure it's not the first time male students have hit on her. One thing is how she brushed me off so subtle, but she doesn't say much. She's pretty timid.
Author one goal Posted April 16, 2011 Author Posted April 16, 2011 (edited) One goal, are your initials MG by any chance? No, they're not. I might just give up on this dating crap. Why waste time when they all say no and get mad? Edited April 16, 2011 by one goal
oaks Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 Why? If it's all as innocent as you say then what's the problem? Better safe than sorry.
oaks Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 I might just give up on this dating crap. Why waste time when they all say no and get mad? They only get mad because you don't take 'no' for an answer. Try sticking to girls your own age. What is it, 17?
Author one goal Posted April 16, 2011 Author Posted April 16, 2011 They only get mad because you don't take 'no' for an answer. Try sticking to girls your own age. What is it, 17? I always tried girls my own age or younger. No luck. Hence I decided to try a older one this time. Again no luck!
oaks Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 I always tried girls my own age or younger. No luck. Hence I decided to try a older one this time. Again no luck! Try someone else. Just learn to move on more quickly when they reject you, and do it without drama. They don't want to have a discussion with you about it if they aren't interested. I'm guessing that you don't find all girls attractive, so don't be surprised that not all girls find you attractive either, or can't date you for another reason. You keep telling us that your teacher is hot, and I asked if you are hot and you didn't answer that. How attractive do you think you are, out of 10?
Author one goal Posted April 16, 2011 Author Posted April 16, 2011 Try someone else. Just learn to move on more quickly when they reject you, and do it without drama. They don't want to have a discussion with you about it if they aren't interested. I'm guessing that you don't find all girls attractive, so don't be surprised that not all girls find you attractive either, or can't date you for another reason. You keep telling us that your teacher is hot, and I asked if you are hot and you didn't answer that. How attractive do you think you are, out of 10? On a scale of 1-10 I'd say maybe 7-8. Closer to 8.
One Goal's Dad Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 No, they're not. I might just give up on this dating crap. Why waste time when they all say no and get mad? Don't worry, son. If this next stalking victim...girlfriend does not work out, we'll look into one of those mail order brides from Russia. Keep reaching for the stars:):):eek::)
oaks Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 On a scale of 1-10 I'd say maybe 7-8. Closer to 8. That's good (and it almost doesn't matter if it's true because just having the confidence that you're attractive goes a long way). So try approaching attractive girls your age. Eventually one will agree to have coffee with you, but meanwhile lots of them won't.
MarlyStar Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 Why? I don't want her to see what emails I sent her in the past? I mean do you think the teacher saved those emails I sent her asking her out? That's kinda embarassing if she showed them to the dept head or dean? Why would it be embarassing? Since it was so innocent and pure. Besides you keep saying you just sent one email, and yet it's been clear to us for a while you've sent more than one. And here it is, in your own words 'emails' and 'them'. So many that you are embarassed by letting people know you've sent them. If you are embarassed by sending them, how embarassing was it for her to receive them. If you did nothing wrong, you'd not be embarassed. But you treated her badly and you know it; that's why you are embarassed. I just don't understand why she was weired out by me asking her out and showing interest. I mean shes at least 10 years older than me but still. She's taught there ever since she graduated college so I'm sure it's not the first time male students have hit on her. One thing is how she brushed me off so subtle, but she doesn't say much. She's pretty timid. First of all, you don't have to understand WHY she rejected you. You have to RESPECT it. Frankly, why she rejected you is her business not yours. Your business is to absorb the rejection and move on. I'm sure if the other students asked her out and she said 'no', they then did something very important you haven't done: they then LEFT HER ALONE. Why won't you leave her alone? Don't you understand that your continuing pursuit and plotting to get her attention SCREAMS mental illness? (yours--not hers, just thought I'd make that clear, YOUR mental illness.)
MarlyStar Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 I'm guessing that you don't find all girls attractive, so don't be surprised that not all girls find you attractive either, or can't date you for another reason. Oaks makes a good point. You've made it clear you don't find all girls attractive or worth dating, so why isn't she allowed the same perrogative? Because it's you, wonderful good looking, hot you? And she's 10 years older and thus should be so enthralled and grateful for your attention she'll go out with you? If she's friends with one person, does that mean she has to be friends with everyone? Are you? You have mentioned friends in your threads, so it seems you've got at least one. Does this make you obligated to be friends with everyone? How about those online women you rejected--the ones you say are either ugly, desperate or promiscuous? Who comes off as more desperate than you? If you can reject a woman because she's desperate, why can't your teacher?
MarlyStar Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 I was thinking the last day of the semester if I bought her a card, and maybe a $20 giftcard to somewhere, would that at least maybe be able to get me her personal email addy, or number to keep in touch with her? Or would that be a bad thing because she might think I'm trying to get her to give me a better grade? So you've tried harassment, threats, and now bribery to get her to pay attention to you? You've sent her at least 14 emails, unwanted emails, in the last six weeks, more than 2 a week--and you really think she's going to give you her personal email addy? She's rejected you over and over, in person, on FB, in email--and now you think she's going to give you a phone number? Why? To give her another medium through which to be harassed? Get real.
MarlyStar Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 And yes, I do think she's kept all your emails and there's a record of your phone calls. And it won't be long before she shows them to the dean herself, if she hasn't already. If you don't want to further embarass yourself, stop contacting her.
MissJoness Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 I wish more men would stop being so damn cheap, and stingy and give gifts to women as a way to impress them. I think it's sweet.
Art_Critic Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 I always tried girls my own age or younger. No luck. Hence I decided to try a older one this time. Again no luck! I'm with Johan on this one.. make one more big play for her.. she is about to crack and go out with you. Maybe up the amount of the gift card some.. say to 50.00 and make it someplace she can use it to buy something she needs.. say Target...that way when she needs condoms for the date you guys can just swing by and she can use the gift card. Good Luck
one goal's mother Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 I was thinking the last day of the semester if I bought her a card, and maybe a $20 giftcard to somewhere, would that at least maybe be able to get me her personal email addy, or number to keep in touch with her? Or would that be a bad thing because she might think I'm trying to get her to give me a better grade? I already told you you won't be getting any more pocket money in a while. Now stop playing with the computer.
one goal's mother Posted April 17, 2011 Posted April 17, 2011 Don't worry, son. If this next stalking victim...girlfriend does not work out, we'll look into one of those mail order brides from Russia. Keep reaching for the stars:):):eek::) Why don't you just take him to an escort service and get it over and done with
leftfordead2 Posted April 17, 2011 Posted April 17, 2011 I was thinking the last day of the semester if I bought her a card, and maybe a $20 giftcard to somewhere, would that at least maybe be able to get me her personal email addy, or number to keep in touch with her? Or would that be a bad thing because she might think I'm trying to get her to give me a better grade? Wait, that's not enough. You need to buy a bouquet of 99 roses. No more, no less. After which, choose a field and decorate it with candles in a heart shaped and in the heart, lay petals to spell out the words "I love you." Invite all your classmates and whatever mates you have to wait in the fields. After which, wait for your teacher outside the office, lead her to the field and give her the bouquet of flowers. She will be so touched she will run into your arms and a drop of tear will trickle down her cheek. Your mates will then applaud you for scoring with a teacher. 100% success guaranteed.
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