Meeting ex for first time after 6 weeks NC - WHAT HAPPENED?

[skylines1987]

Well, i never met her, read the threat about "meeting ex for first time after 6 weeks NC! Needed! and then i decided to take option 3. Email and say why i didnt want to meet, heres the email:

 

Hey

 

So a text message wasnt really sufficient to say what i want to say, especially as blackberrys are such poor quality...

 

Anyway the long and short of it is I dont think Sunday is a good idea since It wont achieve anything and the fact i now have a growth (cold sore) on my face, weird how that should APPEAR as you text me! haha im joking but weirdly coincidential done too much again! skiing, cycling in britanny (i went to france! just not paris ha), gym football surfing etc etc

 

So i guess were both doing well and there is no need to disrupt it! I can tell you everything i need to here and we can go our separate ways and you need not reply!

 

The dreaded 'Friends' idea may well work for you, but i dont want to be the 'fall back guy' i have some respect for myself and deserve better!! Also think about it in the long run, when you meet someone new (if you havent already) their not exactly going to be happy with you being "pals" with your ex, just think of how you were with me! Its a nice ideal but realistically... isnt going to work is it? It will just be cut off once again and thats no fun for anyone concerned!

 

Unfortunately the friends thing doesnt really work for me, because if i saw you it would just bring back all the memories of the good times and there are so many! (2.5 years worth! we were untouchable!) Each time you look in the mirror i hope you see me behind you protecting you haha we did look good! not sure where it all went wrong, distance, stresses, i got ugly? haha not sure, but you were right the break needed to happen.

 

Just next time you do it to someone, dont make them spend money on train tickets, what a kick in the balls!! haha and a week before their birthday after they sent you to spain for yours with your best friends... haha im only messing cant be helped! the thought of me being miserable about being 24 probabaly sealed the deal haha but infact i was in high spirits!!

 

So i have set about changing myself to be a better person as dictated by her lordship! yes you!, yeh ok im not 100% getting on with olds (that was never possible), so much better now though!. I have been looking at buying a property wth Dan from gym, olds are lending me money for deposit and we had an offer accepted only for it to fall through! gutted! Im thinking when i move out i will have a better relationship with them. I go to abi's to hang out say hello to the cats! abi and steve are putting in motions of moving to australia!! crazy times, i have now applied for a course to do an australian law conversion at open university, so if all doesnt go to plan with SS, i can move out their, my friend from LPC Leah is out there and she loves it! and tommy and holly have just moved out there.

 

I have paid off my debts!, now im loving work really involved doing loads of events with the firm and James now comes to me to help him!! (edf knowledge paid off!!) have to do a absaile soon im going to crap my pants and a 35mile hike over a mountain! did a half marathan nearly died! ha hoping to see a bit of the world in the summer 4 weeks holiday to take! woop!

 

Im also doing this acoustic thing with someone called verity so look on youtube in the near future we do some cool songs, adele, eliza dolittle - bieber song its quality, bit of dallas (my vocals) getting back to being creative!

 

as for the bit about you, well i am truly sorry for ever making you upset (even once), the saying you dont know what youve got until its gone is so true! i took you for granted and no apology really suffices, needless to say i got my just desserts i lost my soulmate and best friend! Just know im sorry.

 

Soooo all i know is that you need time to figure out what you want and need from life! maybe the grass isnt greener on the otherside and one day in the future we may bump into 1 another and maybe spark it up again, who knows?

 

For reasons, you know what they are, i need not repeat them here, im willing to part ways with you and wish you all the best life can bring for you

 

I hope you have many big supprises, like a BABY (obviously when wanted) and travels and all the other things you want to achieve and do, lets not forget head of BT! should have stuck with me i know people there now!!! lol

 

Please wish your olds all the best with your dads retirement and building the next "grand designs" house! And if your sister needs any help with law work or a placement get her to drop me a line! I am quite in with Liz now!

 

So best of luck for that final push at uni! and for finding the next "robert patterson" or "colin farell" or female... ha whoever they may be and the rest of life!

 

I'll leave you with one final thought which is pretty funny, was watching that all star mr and mrs over tea earlier and the guy got asked: if your wife was made into a model of chocolate which bit of her body would you eat first, his response... her bum!

 

All the best

 

Justin x

[Chi townD]

Wow! Very nice e-mail. Well thought out and to the point. I like it. Let us know if she responds.