ech Posted April 15, 2011 Posted April 15, 2011 I am sure you all will go back and read my old posts and say leave him: But please hear me out on this one;) and please give some advice...cause I need it! My bf has totally changed in the past month-asked me to move in, stopped drinking- wants to go to church ect...He is looking for a new house to "start over". That its just me and him forever. He says he will marry me in the FUTURE. BUT yet he acts so bizarre sometimes, like he is still not sure about things, (us). Sometimes when we fight it seems like its so easy for him to end things. If I say, I will talk to you later, he will say "no you wont, not if you hang up now" Or if I want to hang out with my friends on the weekend I am supposed to go to his house he will say "if you dont come over, dont plan on ever coming back". Like its that easy to just say goodbye. I dont get it. Anyone ever been in a relationship like this?
maysj18 Posted April 15, 2011 Posted April 15, 2011 Leaveeeee. He is manipulating and controlling you. I highly doubt you want someone like that. Am I right? Especially living or potentially marrying them. Obviously him "changing" isn't genuine, so don't let him sweet talk you. Actions speak louder than words.
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