Sake Posted April 15, 2011 Posted April 15, 2011 Back in February I asked a girl-friend of mine if she wanted to go out for dinner sometime, she accepted but later told a mutual friend that she thinks I'm trying to get at her or trying to chop her (slang for getting intimate with her either on a relationship level or just for sex) and I felt like if I did go with her she'd just have her guard up so I just ignored her for a week and just didn't call/text her. A week after I texted her and apologized and she said there was nothing wrong with it and actually called me two days in a row and seemed so interested in me, she'd tell me how well we got along and actually asked me out on the third day. I accepted but I got sick (really sick) and ever since then shes been kind of giving me the cold shoulder. Doesn't text anymore, barely replies on facebook, I called twice about 2 weeks ago and she didn't pick up and claims that shes just been working a lot (excuses). what I'm asking is do you guys think shes not interested anymore? or playing hard to get? Shes kind of a girl with morals and still a virgin (we're 19-20) How can I turn the tables and make her call me?
BiscuitXOXO Posted April 15, 2011 Posted April 15, 2011 If she was really interested, she would make time for you. Being busy is no excuse. Playing hard to get would mean that she would still flirt and tease you, even if she doesn't go out with you. But giving a cold shoulder isn't the same thing. And if she was just "testing" you or playing with you, would you really want to still see her? If you persist though, you should really sit down face to face with her and discuss your intentions, whether honorable or not
Hules Posted April 15, 2011 Posted April 15, 2011 Lol, turn the tables, you cant force someone to like you. By her behavior shes not interested move on.
mustofbeen Posted April 15, 2011 Posted April 15, 2011 let it go, move on, sending her more messages or calling her only going to make her want you less.
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