SJC2008 Posted April 15, 2011 Posted April 15, 2011 Went on a date about 6 weeks ago and I thought it went well, good converstion etc. She had to leave the state for a week for business so i told her id call her when she got back which i did. She did not answer so i called two days later. No answer, a couple of hours later i texted her saying i liked her and wanted to get to know her and basically told her in a nice way to let me know what was going on. She replied back and was very apologetic and said she recently had a breakup and thought she was ready but wasnt, she even said she did not handle the sitation right. Assuming she was telling the truth, would it look bad if i called her to see how she was doing? I dont care how lame this sounds but this girl is awesome so i fiured to give it at least one more attempt.
BiscuitXOXO Posted April 15, 2011 Posted April 15, 2011 Personally I wouldn't call yet, let her recover and rest. Maybe in another week or so, and then don't ask if she's feeling better. (it'll remind her of the breakup ) Just ask if she wants to go somewhere or something, and be as fun as possible.
veggirl Posted April 15, 2011 Posted April 15, 2011 I wouldn't do it, but it sounds like you are going to do it regardless of what advice you are given here. So, that being said, call ONCE. Leave a casual message if she doesn't answer and ask her to call you back. Then nothing!!
Lilmisus Posted April 15, 2011 Posted April 15, 2011 I'm sure she's telling the truth, and I think that you should respect that she isn't ready to date quite yet. You may like her, but she's probably still not feeling it, because if she was, she would have let you know instead of just not contacting you like she did a few weeks ago. So, I say, let it go. If she was ready, or interested, she would probably call you up and tell you so. Maybe in another month or two could you shoot her another message (but don't have hopes of it going any place) just to say "what's up" or whatever, but don't push it or anything.
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