Mister_Lonely Posted April 14, 2011 Posted April 14, 2011 Just wondering if my ex is in a rebound relationship? We were together 2 years, towards the end we were arguing & she cheated on me. Tried to make it work but she ended us, less than 2 months after she is now with the guy she cheated on me with. She obviously built the ground work whilst we were together & remained in contact when I was trying to get her back. Do you think this relationship will last? She has always had a bf since she was 16 & she got with me pretty quick after she dumped her cheating ex before me, then we were together 2 years. This new guy is not good enough for her, no job, kid from previous relationship etc so is she with him because she is afraid to be alone? What's your opinion & do you have a similar experience? Did you get back with your ex?
VJohnson32 Posted April 15, 2011 Posted April 15, 2011 (edited) No, your ex is very similar to my ex. She had a bf for two years after which they broke off, Ive met her 2 months after they broke it off ... we lasted 2 years and she broke up with me. She is now in a new relationship few months after we ended it. These are people with emotional and psychological issues way beyond us. They seem to suffer from identity crisis and constant mood swings. Their future is very blurry and always respond with irrational decisions. Probably because they have always been in relationships since they were young and dont know who they are on their own. They cant function on their own, cant cope. Very disturbed people, always depressed and rarely genuinely happy. Seems their happiness is mostly on the outside, however on the inside they are struggling... I studied my ex for a long time... Edited April 15, 2011 by VJohnson32
Author Mister_Lonely Posted April 15, 2011 Author Posted April 15, 2011 Thank you VJohnson, exactly the same story. My ex had a lot of baggage from her childhood & many issuses & I think that's what caused us to argue, towards the end of our relationship she developed a drug habit which of course messes with your mind. Her issues must be the reason why she jumps from one relationship to another, it only hurts because it's as if I have been replaced & she hasn't looked back. I don't want her back anymore but hopes she doesn't stay with this new bf for 2 years, but there is definitely a pattern.
dragonfly22 Posted April 15, 2011 Posted April 15, 2011 My ex bf is the same. We started dating just a few weeks after he broke up a 4 year long relationship with his previous gf. At the time he told me it had been a few months since the breakup, as I had been the rebound girl before and hurt badly because of it so I was kind of traumatized. I found out the truth much later into our relationship. He broke up with me yesterday after 5 years together and I have strong reasons to believe he has the next girl lined up already. Some people just can't be on their own.
EmperorR Posted April 15, 2011 Posted April 15, 2011 my ex fiance cheated on me, dumped me left me for another guy not the one she cheated on a week later, this was 3 years ago and they are still together getting married. I remember when they got together I was like it's just a rebound lol sometimes they do last
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