shapp Posted April 14, 2011 Posted April 14, 2011 I did nc for 5 days it did work after he left, he bit off more than he can chew with all the big talk he was doing. we started back seeing each other, but he is still living at his mother. he calls and I call he comes by not every day. anyway him leaving was not the only problem, he drink alot so at his mothers he feels he can have a little more discipline, because she want tolerate him coming in and out all times of the night drunk like I did. He is trying to make a change, He was not working, he is trying to find a job. what i want to ask you all is should I just go along with what he trying to do or what. I think he wants to do better. I was not tough enough on him, and you have to be. I was too easy going.
lma Posted April 14, 2011 Posted April 14, 2011 Hi shapp, i dont know what is the reason of the breakup? What reason did he gave you for breakup?
Author shapp Posted April 14, 2011 Author Posted April 14, 2011 He said he waas frusrated, had been drinking, it was alot on his mind. He just needed a change to try and get hisself together. being over at his mom for now will keep him grounded and help him to make better decisions and leave that that drinking alone. in other words I was to easy I let him get away with whatever. although the things he did hurted me.
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