kalena9488 Posted April 14, 2011 Posted April 14, 2011 My BF moved out of my house at the end of Dec. We've continued to see each other most times. (i.e. we're not seeing anyone else) but we are not BF and GF anymore. He wants us to be but so much has happened I try to let it go and give him another chance I just have a really hard time doing it and don't know what to do. My main problem with him was pot. He said he'd stop and never did. Then I threw him out and so now he's saying he'd rather have me in his life then do that. But, I don't believe him. I'm sure he can not do it for a while but he will do it again. And now he just got custody of his two kids (14 y/o girl and 11 y/o boy). They were taken away from their mother by CPS and full custody given to him. I'm very glad he's there for his kids and I have been there for all of them. Even giving them all a place to stay for a few weeks. But my kids are 24, 21 and 14 and the 14 y/o lives with his father. I don't mind the kids but they think I'm the money bags. He has an 8 y/o that said to me the other day. "If me and daddy need money will you give it to us." She knows we are not BF/GF anymore. I just can't understand why an 8 y/o would say that. My problem is I think he wants me around because he won't be able to pay his rent here real so and wants me there to bail him out or let them move back in because he knows I'll feel sorry for the kids. I think I just need to be done with it and move on. But sometimes I do believe I love him and I'll never meet anyone else to love or love me again. I'm just so confused and I don't know what to do anymore. Just some thoughts would be nice. Thanks
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