loveforever Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 (edited) Some might know my story....if not it's (looooong) in my profile.... After the divorce was final (Jan 6th) the papers came (Jan 9th) and he tried to hide them from me....I said "Why, it's over !!!!" and he said "Only if you want it to be".....he hugged me and said that he DOES love me and he does not want me to move out.... I was sooooo happy because I wanted to be with him, but I must have built some resentment against him and unfortunately made a lot of snide remarks and accusations (he had an EA) about other women.....at that time it seemed like he really wanted to try to reconcile....and I made it hard on him End of January my mom passed away and it messed me up big time....all the positive changes I've made were neglected again .... Another wake-up call happened.... One night he got drunk and wanted sex.....I didn't respond so he went to sleep.....the next day he seemed fine with me, yet he moved into the spare bedroom he said "I want to avoid things (sex)" and "Because it's not right"..... Since 2 weeks he is sleeping in the spare bedroom now. We seemed to be getting along good....we talk nicely, smile and joke, but no affection is happening.... Again....out of nowhere I'm getting this text At some point this week, we need to talk when we both have time. My response *sick-to-my-stomach-cause-I-know* About ?! Us. I'm doing a late dwi arrest and can't talk now. It's nothing new and that's why I said sometime this week when we have time. I didn't see the Us. in the beginning and asked again About ??? Jesus Christ, I said us and what we are doing. I cannot talk now. As I said this is nothing new and nothing we haven't talked about before. I am terrified that he's done for good..... What could he want to talk about ??? This is killing me !!!!!! Any opinion ???? Any advice ???? What does it sound like to you ??? Help, I'm really devastated !!!!!!! Please !!!!!! Edited April 13, 2011 by loveforever
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