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All this stuff is common sense; it's a little harder to answer how to do the finer specifics.

 

It's easer to get on a plane than it is to fly it, and it's easier to fly a plane than to build it.

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And just as manipulative and contrived.

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And just as manipulative and contrived.

 

Trifling to say the least but really happening right now

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My brain hurts....

 

Once I read things like this, I have no idea what direction I should even go in for the future when it comes to women. I don't even want to be a Player, I just want to do well with women (as far as being able to talk to them and attract them in general), but everything seems so loose here, so whatever--just gotta play my cards right, I suppose. Whatever. These Player notes do seem interesting, so....

 

Anyway, nice read.

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I'm at a point of my life where I want a secure relationship in which I can be myself without playing.

 

Games do work, but I don't want to play forever.

 

This is a great attitude.

 

I gotta admit, many of those tricks would work on me... but I'd constantly feel a little dizzy and without both feet on the ground. That would be a horrible way to feel, and would ultimately cause problems in the relationship itself.

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This is a great attitude.

 

I gotta admit, many of those tricks would work on me... but I'd constantly feel a little dizzy and without both feet on the ground. That would be a horrible way to feel, and would ultimately cause problems in the relationship itself.

 

That is an excellent point. I've fallen for a few more than I agree with, thats for dang sure. But you know when it isn't right. When a guy is really just playing games and can't focus on anything besides that.

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That is an excellent point. I've fallen for a few more than I agree with, thats for dang sure. But you know when it isn't right. When a guy is really just playing games and can't focus on anything besides that.

 

The irony is that, you know how guys call girls "crazy" and "drama" and allathat? That brand of crazy is the result of the games listed in the OP! :laugh:

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Reading things like this make me sad and nervous about being back in the dating game, where I never thought I'd be again. I'm so grateful my husband wasn't like that at all, he wasn't always trying to be in control, he wasn't always trying to control me. Nothing was about games with him. I hope I don't meet men who are like this, it's all so fake and calculating and it totally misses the point of people's emotions.

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Me thinks I should look more into those rules.

 

After a quick glance I've seen several that I've broken.

 

It may be "playing games," but when not playing games doesn't work, there really is only one thing to try.

I'm not interested in men who play games. Id walk past any man who'd attempt to do any of the following. I have respect for myself, I deserve better then that.

 

Id much prefer the "nice guy".

I really wish that was true. But this nice guy has been passed over by so many women it's just stupid to keep being this way.

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If you are still young and just to have fun, go ahead and play to get as many women as you want. But when it comes to finding someone for long term, getting her through playing means you are doing it wrong. This is why countless marriages fail because people were pretending to be someone they were not before getting married and shocked that the person they married was not the person they knew before the marriage.

 

http://roissy.wordpress.com/the-sixt...ments-of-poon/

 

If you want to read even more hateful stuff about women go to his site's home page. Most of you will want to vomit. You can thank Google.

 

http://roissy.wordpress.com/

Hmm, seems like a lot of good stuff on there. Im bookmarking it.

 

To add to my previous post, I think it stems from knowing that he COULD be with other women if he wanted. He chooses to be with me.

I have to say that is a pretty childish way of thinking. I suppose you are still in your 20s, yes?

 

Fully mature people know exactly what they want without influenced by what others do.

 

To be honest since Im still young myself, sometimes I found myself feeling attraction toward someone just because other people also want that person. Fortunately, I was always aware of what was going on when that happened and I refrained myself from following my immature impulse.

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Me thinks I should look more into those rules.

 

After a quick glance I've seen several that I've broken.

 

It may be "playing games," but when not playing games doesn't work, there really is only one thing to try.

 

I really wish that was true. But this nice guy has been passed over by so many women it's just stupid to keep being this way.

 

Would you want the type of woman that would allow herself to be controlled? If not, hold out. I have to say, no one is happy broken. If you care about your partner as a person, you will want them to enjoy life in their own way. I believe that partners's courses should naturally flow together. If it doesn't work or feel right, it won't and it isn't.

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If you are still young and just to have fun, go ahead and play to get as many women as you want. But when it comes to finding someone for long term, getting her through playing means you are doing it wrong. This is why countless marriages fail because people were pretending to be someone they were not before getting married and shocked that the person they married was not the person they knew before the marriage.

 

 

Hmm, seems like a lot of good stuff on there. Im bookmarking it.

 

 

I have to say that is a pretty childish way of thinking. I suppose you are still in your 20s, yes?

 

Fully mature people know exactly what they want without influenced by what others do.

 

To be honest since Im still young myself, sometimes I found myself feeling attraction toward someone just because other people also want that person. Fortunately, I was always aware of what was going on when that happened and I refrained myself from following my immature impulse.

 

I am not in my twenties. And that is only a portion of our relationship. That is more about sex than anything else. For me, it's hot. The things I pointed out contribute to my overall attraction, not one incident.

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I am not in my twenties. And that is only a portion of our relationship. That is more about sex than anything else. For me, it's hot. The things I pointed out contribute to my overall attraction, not one incident.

I see, I guess from sexual point of view, seeing another woman seducing your man triggers your competitive instinct to protect your sexual access. :)

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I see, I guess from sexual point of view, seeing another woman seducing your man triggers your competitive instinct to protect your sexual access. :)

 

Who knows? Most of these players ,or poon chasers, are trying to get women to sleep with them or otherwise desire them? I enjoy a little competition,

 

My lover/bf is most certainly a sexual asset and not a right/guaranteed possession. Like I said, it is only one aspect of our life.

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Me thinks I should look more into those rules.

 

After a quick glance I've seen several that I've broken.

 

It may be "playing games," but when not playing games doesn't work, there really is only one thing to try.

 

I really wish that was true. But this nice guy has been passed over by so many women it's just stupid to keep being this way.

 

You don't usually come across as much of a nice guy. You're a self-pitier, but not really nice. I'm willing to bet that in real life you come across as too neutral and innocuous as well.

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This. And he also expects women, far above his looks, to be interested in him, despite having women interested in him. If only he could understand that one has what can be had, not what one desires, he'd be much happier.

 

Although I agree with your points, you really do have a hard-on for following somedude81 around. Why is this exactly?

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I. Never say ‘I Love You’ first

 

This would fail with me. Haven't ever said I love you first.

 

II. Make her jealous

 

This would fail with me. I reflexively withdraw when men flirt around.

 

III. You shall make your mission, not your woman, your priority

 

Fail again. I tell men right out the gate that I need to be their priority. They've all agreed. One tried to passive-aggressively circumvent his initial agreement and our connection did a death spiral.

 

IV. Don’t play by her rules

 

Relationships are partnerships, not dom-sub games.

 

V. Adhere to the golden ratio

 

Fail again. This would make a guy a cheap screw in my eyes.

 

VI. Keep her guessing

 

Fail again. If you play on my insecurities, death spiral time.

 

VII. Always keep two in the kitty

 

Fail again. I don't share.

 

VIII. Say you’re sorry only when absolutely necessary

 

If he's wrong, I expect he'll apologize. If he doesn't once, it's an amber flag. If it happens twice, the amber flag goes red. If he does it again, Sayonara.

 

IX. Connect with her emotions

 

I like this one.

 

X. Ignore her beauty

 

As someone who doesn't need a lot of compliments about her looks, this would be okay up to a point. But if he never complimented, this would be a red flag of disinterest to me, which in turn turns me off.

 

XI. Be irrationally self-confident

 

If he's irrationally self-confident, then he's a poser. Better be able to back up that confidence or you're full of it.

 

XII. Maximize your strengths, minimize your weaknesses

 

This one has my full support.

 

XIII. Err on the side of too much boldness, rather than too little

 

There's a rhythm to dating and touching, just like there's a rhythm to sex. Eff it up and you're toast.

 

XIV. **** her good

 

Two thumbs up for this one!

 

XV. Maintain your state control

 

If this was changed to Maintain your self-control, I'd be fully supportive of it. Of course this wouldn't include having "mastery" over a women. If a guy wanted to role play Master and Slave, he's more than welcome to be the Slave.

 

XVI. Never be afraid to lose her

 

I agree that anyone, male or female, shouldn't fear loss. If the two of you aren't compatible, it's time to cut bait.

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Players are jesters. They play an act and hope that the 'woman' is going to fall for it. These females are usually drunk, or high, so if that's your cup of tea, Roissy and the creepy bastards like him are the way to go.

 

After reading that blog, I discovered a thread from Roissy, in that one he details the pursuit of sex in South America. Met with no success. Might have something to do with the fact that GAME is an illusion that only works on drunk women, and South American women have standards too high, Roissy can't climb them up with his BS :lmao:

 

When I was in Brazil, in the major Cities, I realized that most of the guys around, the natives, looked like this:

 

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_nqNGqgh-nvM/TNlCr32r9kI/AAAAAAAAMGM/sxmpT19rpEI/s1600/hulk2_reu_95.jpg

 

And the women were equally attractive. You honestly believe that 'GAME' can compete with that? How can an illusion(game), work on people who grew up with bloody Adam and Eve as their classmates?

Different cultures, different things work.

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Question;

Are the women admitting these techniques work on them the same ones who don’t understand why some men don’t respect them or the choices they have made in the past?

-you get what you except-

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Ha ha I didnt read further than the frist three paragraphs - with that kind of **** you definitely would have me dropping you in no time. All that behaviour is such a big turn off for me. Arggh!

 

There might be women who like this though - I guess it is a question of what kind of woman you aim to attract.

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I'd prefer not to play silly games. I want a man who is loving, decent, honest, open, and committed to our relationship. If he wants to assert his authority and manhood, he should just put me over his knee and spank me - it would be much more effective than simply behaving like a jerk.

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I'd prefer not to play silly games. I want a man who is loving, decent, honest, open, and committed to our relationship. If he wants to assert his authority and manhood, he should just put me over his knee and spank me - it would be much more effective than simply behaving like a jerk.

 

You dont have to play games. Your job is to be aware of game, recognize game, so you dont get played by these players. They are not gonna tell you I got game...the way it goes is ....it is to experienced not revealed that Im trying to take you there.

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that is why it is important for a woman to know her self worth and self respect and not be desperate to have a man. You have to love yourself.

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Some of these are common sense, but some of these would just not work on some types of women. Even a player can't score with every woman.

 

And women that would fall for these types of tricks, you don't want anyway.

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