Mixed28 Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 I wrote on here awhile ago that I was too clingy which lead to my girlfriend leaving me. I described how i was"clingy" then you all disagreed and said I was not. Well my ex got a new bf in january and when I see them (we go to a small college) he is always walking 15ft or more in front of her while she walks with her friends. And at the basketball games (Shes a b ball player) he always sits near me because we have the same circle of friends and never with her parents. Now in our relationship I would walk with her with her friends holding hands and sit with her parents. She has been with him longer than I was with her. It's very interesting. Thats not what I want if thats what she likes.
Hopeless Girl Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 I wrote on here awhile ago that I was too clingy which lead to my girlfriend leaving me. I described how i was"clingy" then you all disagreed and said I was not. Well my ex got a new bf in january and when I see them (we go to a small college) he is always walking 15ft or more in front of her while she walks with her friends. And at the basketball games (Shes a b ball player) he always sits near me because we have the same circle of friends and never with her parents. Now in our relationship I would walk with her with her friends holding hands and sit with her parents. She has been with him longer than I was with her. It's very interesting. Thats not what I want if thats what she likes. she's probably blind about it... we've all been with *******s
Author Mixed28 Posted April 13, 2011 Author Posted April 13, 2011 she's probably blind about it... we've all been with *******s I don't think I undertand he's not a douche.
Author Mixed28 Posted April 13, 2011 Author Posted April 13, 2011 huh????????????????????? I thought you said he was a (b a s t e r d) and I said he's not a douche or a jerk etc. I don't want to be with her if she likes that weird distance.
Hopeless Girl Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 yea i said asholes ... how long were u together?
Author Mixed28 Posted April 13, 2011 Author Posted April 13, 2011 yea i said asholes ... how long were u together? 2 months they have been together for longer than 3 months. I look back on it and she was kind of distant and when I see them they are distant it is interesting
Hopeless Girl Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 2 months only wow... u know u were just starting.. i always start distant to... everyone starts differently.. u have to relax ... do u guys still talk?
Author Mixed28 Posted April 14, 2011 Author Posted April 14, 2011 2 months only wow... u know u were just starting.. i always start distant to... everyone starts differently.. u have to relax ... do u guys still talk? Not really she waves to me and stuff and says hi. We did talk once after the break up she started the convo bt it was small talk.
Hopeless Girl Posted April 14, 2011 Posted April 14, 2011 Not really she waves to me and stuff and says hi. We did talk once after the break up she started the convo bt it was small talk. aw man... the only way to get her back if its u show her ur charm again if she werent with this guy..
Author Mixed28 Posted April 14, 2011 Author Posted April 14, 2011 aw man... the only way to get her back if its u show her ur charm again if she werent with this guy.. I don't know I immediatly went no contact after she dumped me besides when she started talking to me that one time. So I did not push her away. It sucks though.
Eddie Edirol Posted April 14, 2011 Posted April 14, 2011 That might happen to you again if you stay the way you are. Read this to understand why she is with him longer: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showpost.php?p=3344707&postcount=1
Author Mixed28 Posted April 14, 2011 Author Posted April 14, 2011 That might happen to you again if you stay the way you are. Read this to understand why she is with him longer: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showpost.php?p=3344707&postcount=1 Will do. I thought next time I want be so loving and all that I need to repress that. Make it seem like I don't care as much.
Eddie Edirol Posted April 14, 2011 Posted April 14, 2011 Will do. I thought next time I want be so loving and all that I need to repress that. Make it seem like I don't care as much. if you need me to explain any of it to you, PM me. Theres degrees to how you do any of this depending on the personality that youre dealing with. Im sure you have already compared what you did to what it says and seen the reaction.
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