OCCDAVE Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 I went ahead and asked 2 girls I've been messaging for about a week. One said I'm not much of a ph taker and the other who up untill now hasnted text me.so pretty much both are nothing so how do I text them now tbh I'm kinda embaressed
627 Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 you asked them out through text? I was told, and it works better, if you call/meet and do that+ don't ask... tell them in a way, it'd be kinda hard for them to say no
Author OCCDAVE Posted April 13, 2011 Author Posted April 13, 2011 I just asked for the number I sent them this Hey I've enjoyed talking can I call you?
carhill Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 One way or another, you'll have an answer. Accepting it and acting upon it is the next step. Keep us posted
Author OCCDAVE Posted April 13, 2011 Author Posted April 13, 2011 Should I still continue to message them I enjoy chatting but wanted to advance to the ph
carhill Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 No need to message further. If they message again.... 'I'd like to call you' Other than that, they can eat electrons.
oaks Posted April 14, 2011 Posted April 14, 2011 Should I still continue to message them I enjoy chatting but wanted to advance to the ph Sounds like they don't want to give you their phone numbers... so assuming you wanted to date them rather than just have a pen pal then ignore them and move on to the next person.
Author OCCDAVE Posted April 14, 2011 Author Posted April 14, 2011 Other one just replied with this Hey*sorry*about*that*I*want*to*exchange*#*eventually*but*I*prefer*to*take*things*slow*when*talking*to*guys*on*online.*U*seem*pretty*interesting,*do*u*have*anymore*pictures? So guess there is hope
Pfiend101 Posted April 14, 2011 Posted April 14, 2011 as far as online goes... I wont go for longer then a week without getting a phone #. IMO the more talking online the less conversation there will be when you get to that actual first date.
Author OCCDAVE Posted April 14, 2011 Author Posted April 14, 2011 That's why I wanted to pull the trigger and ask cuz I know the longer the convo goes less my chance will be
Hules Posted April 14, 2011 Posted April 14, 2011 OCCDAVE I ask for a number generally after a week, if they don't give it to me i assume they are not interested/ have a boyfriend / or are seeing someone else and are keeping you around as a second option. I suggest moving on if they give you the I just want to take things slow bull****.
Author OCCDAVE Posted April 14, 2011 Author Posted April 14, 2011 OCCDAVE I ask for a number generally after a week, if they don't give it to me i assume they are not interested/ have a boyfriend / or are seeing someone else and are keeping you around as a second option. I suggest moving on if they give you the I just want to take things slow bull****.I was thinking bout it cause now I won't event have the guts to ask again after being shot down.heck who's to say another week from now what are the chances she will be like well here's my number I think kinda slim. Btw I'm running out of things to say online lol that's y I was hoping the number worked
Author OCCDAVE Posted April 14, 2011 Author Posted April 14, 2011 So overall think i should continue talking or that take it slow comment is like you have a crush on someone and they say let's be friends
oaks Posted April 14, 2011 Posted April 14, 2011 So overall think i should continue talking or that take it slow comment is like you have a crush on someone and they say let's be friends Well, she's not interested enough to give you her number right now. Will she be interested enough next week? Keep talking if you want, but if you let it drag on forever then you're wasting your time.
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