Jazzari Posted April 14, 2011 Posted April 14, 2011 Again, I am not saying that he has done anything that could be enforced under their guidelines, BUT his behavior is escalating, and he has zero clue of how to stop inviting drama into a situation that should have been resolved a month ago. His hot teacher might feel that she is, indeed, in danger, and universities are not unaware of all the nutcases running around these days. I do think that this poor misguided dude needs to quit while he still has some semblance of being ahead.ITA. Very well said.
Author one goal Posted April 14, 2011 Author Posted April 14, 2011 Oh, I agree that he hasn't really done anything that he could be charged and arrested for, in the legal system outside the college. But....an excerpt from the UNC-Chapel Hill handbook. :bunny: Emergency Disciplinary Action In order to protect University property or members of the University community or to prevent disruption of the academic process, occasionally the University must take emergency action to separate a student from the University. The Chancellor has, therefore, created the Emergency Evaluation and Action Committee. With respect to disciplinary matters, the committee acts only when no other administrative solution, including action by the Student Judicial System, is in its judgment adequate to deal effectively with the situation. Students whose cases may require action by the committee fall into five categories: • Students whose behavior, on or off campus, is such that their presence in the University, in the judgment of the committee, poses a serious threat of disruption of the academic process or a continuing danger to other members of the University community, or University property; :bunny: Again, I am not saying that he has done anything that could be enforced under their guidelines, BUT his behavior is escalating, and he has zero clue of how to stop inviting drama into a situation that should have been resolved a month ago. His hot teacher might feel that she is, indeed, in danger, and universities are not unaware of all the nutcases running around these days. I do think that this poor misguided dude needs to quit while he still has some semblance of being ahead. I am. I'm upset though that she is yet another attractive lady that hates me. All I did was show interest in her and she just shrugged me off like that. However why didn't she say the word NO? She just said it was inappropriate. Then like with facebook she said she wont add me, but that she's not upset. WHy was she being so subtle for?
Lilmisus Posted April 14, 2011 Posted April 14, 2011 One Goal. You need help. For the past hour, I've been pretty bored so I spent some of it looking through your oldest posts, and I realized something...all of your posts you sound like the same creepy psycho who can't take no for an answer. Who drags a story out for as long as people would humor him, but never listens to any of the advice given. And to think...I thought we were special with this story! Aww shucks.. that's a disappointment I think that the teacher got lucky in this case by not having him try to find her phone number, or sending her "I love you" e-mails or anything along the lines as he said he did in his first thread to a lucky lady http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t164405/ Or how about where he wouldn't leave a chick alone and refused to listen to the advice people gave and kept persisting her (sound familiar?) Security had to get involved for him to get the "hint" since before that he still wanted to see if she would like to get drinks (even though he knew she wasn't interested..she was single, why stop trying?) http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t180099/ I don't feel like going through all his posts, because I don't think I have to. One Goal. You need help. Whether it is that you need help finding a new hobby besides making up stories on the internet and refusing to let them go, only to see how long the story gets; or seek serious counseling (or both!) It honestly seems like you live in your own little made up world, and if that's the case, then you need to see what sort of mental illness you could potentially have. That way, the doctor could possibly prescribe you some medication to help you out, and you might actually have a chance getting a girlfriend in the future since you probably wouldn't come off as much of a psycho creep to her. (Doesn't the thought that going to the doctor could help get you a girlfriend encourage you to go??) Seriously dude..if over the past few years multiple people have encouraged you to go to the doctor, and you have yet to go..now is your time to do so. Before you get a restraining order against you (though I doubt it will happen in this case) or you get arrested in the future for sexual harassment. From your history of how you are with the ladies, it wouldn't surprise me if either of those or both happen in the future with the next chick you deem "hot".
Author one goal Posted April 14, 2011 Author Posted April 14, 2011 One Goal. You need help. Before you get a restraining order against you (though I doubt it will happen in this case) or you get arrested in the future for sexual harassment. From your history of how you are with the ladies, it wouldn't surprise me if either of those or both happen in the future with the next chick you deem "hot". That wont happen. I wouldn't do anything to her that would require a restraining order. I just had a crush on her because she's single. If she wasn't single I wouldn't have asked her out. I only asked her out that one time. A lot of the drama lately was when I sent her a simple friend request on myspace just trying to be friendly like other students are on her list, then I tried asking what was wrong with her personal problems she was having trying to see what was wrong. She's mentioned it to me at times and the class as well that she had a personal issue with her family.
sigurpol Posted April 14, 2011 Posted April 14, 2011 (edited) That wont happen. I wouldn't do anything to her that would require a restraining order. I just had a crush on her because she's single. If she wasn't single I wouldn't have asked her out. I only asked her out that one time. A lot of the drama lately was when I sent her a simple friend request on myspace just trying to be friendly like other students are on her list, then I tried asking what was wrong with her personal problems she was having trying to see what was wrong. She's mentioned it to me at times and the class as well that she had a personal issue with her family. I don't even know why I'm buying into this. If it's a troll.. you have some serious dedication. Anyway, quit using phrases like, "I just", "I only", "that one time", "simple", or "I'm trying". The holes in your logic are contemporaneous and everyone sees it. Trying to water down your actions by using BS phrases such as the one I just stated isn't buying you any credibility. You're not innocent. There are pages among pages of responses yet you insist on beating a dead horse. For all of our sake, and especially yours, move on from this mess. Edited April 14, 2011 by sigurpol
Lilmisus Posted April 14, 2011 Posted April 14, 2011 That wont happen. I wouldn't do anything to her that would require a restraining order. I just had a crush on her because she's single. If she wasn't single I wouldn't have asked her out. I only asked her out that one time. A lot of the drama lately was when I sent her a simple friend request on myspace just trying to be friendly like other students are on her list, then I tried asking what was wrong with her personal problems she was having trying to see what was wrong. She's mentioned it to me at times and the class as well that she had a personal issue with her family. I don't think that will happen in this case (as I said). It's far too "innocent" for her to have anything substantial to back up anything with. But with your track record, this wont be the last time it happens. Next time, you'll probably be even more frustrated if someone turns you down, and who knows what you'll do then? Or if you don't do anything then..what if it keeps happening? When do you realize that hey, you need to get checked out before you get into any serious trouble? Or before you end up reaching your breaking point and hurt somebody or yourself? Please let this be the last woman you bother. If you need to, google ways to see if a woman is interested, or to see if a woman is NOT interested. Or, ask us (and take our advice) if someone seems to be giving you the green flag. Just because someone is single, does not mean they're available. Just because they're hot, doesn't mean they're able to ask out and potentially harass. Please take this (and the rest of your stories) as a learning lesson as to how not to behave around a pretty lady. And get help!!!!!
Jazzari Posted April 14, 2011 Posted April 14, 2011 I don't think that will happen in this case (as I said). It's far too "innocent" for her to have anything substantial to back up anything with....<snip>I'm not so sure about that. Remember, we are only hearing his side of the story. After reading some of his history, I think he is white washing alot of his actions and leaving alot out altogether. Whether he is living in a fantasy world or is simply lying is anyone's guess. But I seriously doubt we are hearing the whole truth and nothing but the truth.
Intricategirl Posted April 14, 2011 Posted April 14, 2011 I'm not so sure about that. Remember, we are only hearing his side of the story. After reading some of his history, I think he is white washing alot of his actions and leaving alot out altogether. There is a point here. Remember seeing the email he posted for dissection, and the following comment that "as you can see, there's nothing wrong with it" (paraphrasing). We are getting one side of the story, and have at least one instance where that side has been really flawed. Let's pretend this is not a troll for a moment (we can believe in unicorns later)- if he's not, I think we're getting something that's *almost* very close to the truth. But that doesn't make it the ACTUAL truth. And Mrlonelyone- it has not been ONE incident. On what's been presented here, it's absolutely not stalking, but it has been a pattern of repeated, unwanted contact. And the OP is not well served by telling him, "Aw sorry buddy. It was only one mistake, she turned you down, better luck next time."
mitchell Posted April 14, 2011 Posted April 14, 2011 World's most dedicated troll or world's biggest loser. Or both??
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted April 14, 2011 Posted April 14, 2011 I think it was pretty clear from the beginning that this was a troll.
Lilmisus Posted April 14, 2011 Posted April 14, 2011 I think it was pretty clear from the beginning that this was a troll. If by beginning you mean when he first signed up to LS, then I agree with you. All of his stories (especially his very first one) are too overly outrageous, and the answers are too simple for someone to really have to live the life he lives, or to think that what he's doing is ok. But for someone to think that it's a "fun" hobby to sit around and think of love stories that end up with him getting security called on him (which I guarantee this one will end the same way as the others did), then there is something wrong with them. Especially if this is true. I stick to what I said, and I think this guy needs serious help. He needs to get away from the computer, go out, and find a nice girl who can help him with his issues, and who hopefully wont call security on him.
Author one goal Posted April 14, 2011 Author Posted April 14, 2011 He needs to get away from the computer, go out, and find a nice girl who can help him with his issues, and who hopefully wont call security on him. I keep trying too but they reject me. I tried with the teacher and it didn't work.
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