Kampo Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 so me and my ex broke up about a month ago, was feeling the urge to get back out on the horse so reactivated my long loas OKCupid account and started talking to a few women in my area. ended up going out with one for drinks a week ago. went great funny smart attractive, was going to most likely ask her out for a second date but before I could she invited me over to her place to cook for her (I bragged about my skills during the date lol) she originally offerd last saturday to do it but I was in the middle of a move to my new place. so I said why don't we do it next friday (the one comming up this week) and she agreed. we would text back and forth occationally and what not, last night she invited me to a bonfire her and her friends were having at her place. went great chilled for a few hours, had a few beers. I got a bit tippsy and overplayed it a bit trying to get an offer to stay over, or atleast give her an excuse without sounding slutty. well she offerd and I did, went to bed, was a little awkward at first, wasn't sure if this was for sex or just being friendly and giving me a place to sleep. I lightly touched her to feel out the situation, and things snowballed from there and it was a GOOOD night. now I like this chick, don't want it to be a rebound though. she has never brought up anything about pervious relationships and while I haven't avoided the topic I haven't volunteered it myself. She has to suspect since I told her when we went on the first date when she asked about my living situation, I told her I was temporarily crashing with my brother for the past month but will be getting a place back closer to work within the week (about and hour away from where my brother and she lives) she never asked why I was at my brothers, but tbh if I heard that I would think one of 2 things money issue or girl issue and I don't think she could think money since I brought her to a nice bar for the first date and we ran up a decent tab which I paid without batting an eye, and drive a pretty nice car. So she has to assume breakup This date friday is still on, and will prolly kinda define what it is she wants, if I get the vibe she is looking at this as more of something to evolve toards exclusive/relationship thing should I volunteer the breakup information if i'm not asked? if I'm asked i'm going to be honest, just don't know if I should volunteer the info.
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