Why is this such a hard descision, regarding a gift for my ex.

[roman_pavluchenko]

Im going to indonesia in a few days. My ex's two close friends, who are also pretty good friends of mine asked me to get them these bracelets which are made out of coins and you can get your name engraved in them. One of them said "hey you should get one for all the group!" Which consists of the 4 girls in our group, one of which is my ex. Didn't mind the idea since they're pretty cheap to get.

 

Anyway to the point. I thought about it and my ex dumped me and broke my heart. Said she wanted to be good friends exept its been 3 months and we haven't had anything to do with eachother, she hasn't tried contacting me once. I don't really owe her anything and i shouldn't really care about what she thinks. I just don't want to seem like im being spiteful and getting all her friends gifts but not her. Then again, we have nothing much to do with eachother and i bought her a bracelet once whilst we were dating and she never wore it. What should i do :S

[oldguy]

If your ex is in a group and your all good friends how is it you haven't seen or talked to her in months? Your either ALL good friends or not.

 

All of that aside, if your brake up was truly amicable then yes, get her the same token gift your getting everyone else, if not, no. Or better yet, get everyone, including your ex the gift and see where everything is when you return in several months and then decide if you should give her a gift or not.

 

Would you give your ex a gift if she wasn't your ex, I mean, just a member of this group or a friend?

 

It sounds like your still hung up on your ex to honest.

[roman_pavluchenko]

If your ex is in a group and your all good friends how is it you haven't seen or talked to her in months? Your either ALL good friends or not.

 

All of that aside, if your brake up was truly amicable then yes, get her the same token gift your getting everyone else, if not, no. Or better yet, get everyone, including your ex the gift and see where everything is when you return in several months and then decide if you should give her a gift or not.

 

Would you give your ex a gift if she wasn't your ex, I mean, just a member of this group or a friend?

 

It sounds like your still hung up on your ex to honest.

 

thanks for answering, i mean, we have hung out in a group on a weekly basis exept we pretty much avoid eachother. it's just she hasnt tried contacting me personally at all and said she wanted to be good friends and it's really awkward between us. Ultimately, i don't want her to think im being spiteful by not getting her anything and getting everyone else something, then again, i don't want her to get the impression that im still chasing after her by buying her a gift.