nana841121 Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 i am the dumper, i dumped him because he didn't show deep affection to me, the breakup happend in a dramatic way. first, it was me who brought up the "breakup" out of blue sky via a phone call, i guess he wasn't that into me, and i deserve better, plus,i am gonna leave this city. but i know subconsicously i wanted him to ask me to stay and confess his love to me. From his voice,i could tell he was crying , and then we hang up the next day, i felt so concerend about him, and i called , we met in his place as usual, then he mentioned a 18-year-old girl who is his student. he is a new teacher in an university.he said this student sent him a love poem, i laughed and joked around and didn't take it seriously the next day, i phoned him (ususally he phoned me, i seldom phoned him) right then, he was walking on the campus, it was winter vacation . i asked about his mood, he said he was confused , he thought about that student and me also, immediately,i got offensed, how could he get confused by his student after all the things i have done for him but i pretended nothing bothered me. and spoke out the final words in a calm but firm tone that "we should not contact each other anymore, it's hard for you to have some feeling for someone, even this someone is your student , you still need to give it a try" then we went into NC for two months , He texted me and sent some blessing words one time,i didn't reply, even i was bleeding inside for the past two months. he is now with his new girlfriend now. but phoned me three times and met for one time. we even bantered i was too pride to show my sadness he is a myth to me. confused me i am the dumper, but i am the dumpee emotionally
Author nana841121 Posted April 13, 2011 Author Posted April 13, 2011 The whole episode defies any rational explanation
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