Sugarkane Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 My ex was the dumper and he broke it off because he wasn't ready for a relationship. Fast forward 7 months NC and he wants to meet me.
Popondetta Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 Hmmm, and he didn't write anything else? How old are you and how long where you guys together? Do you still have feelings for him? (I guess since you're on LS).. I would definitely meet him, but don't hold your hope up too high. He might just meet you to see if there's still a connection there, OR he might just want to catch up as a regular old friend, OR he might have broken up with someone else and is looking for attention. If you meet up; Make sure you look your best (without beeing too dresses up), make sure you don't mention any feelings for him until he does, don't talk about the breakup until he does, don't ask him if he's seeing someone. Smile, be yourself, be confident, be patient, talk about positive things... Keep us posted!
gilluk Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 meet him, have a proper heart to heart ask him does he really want a relationship with you this time? if hes not totally sure then tell him hes wasting your time..
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