WorldIsYours Posted April 14, 2011 Posted April 14, 2011 PS, WN- those that have followed your story (and that of your wife) know that you're one of the good ones around these parts. But from his history, he's not so innocent either.
What_Next Posted April 14, 2011 Posted April 14, 2011 (edited) But from his history, he's not so innocent either. No I most certainly am not WIY. Far from it. My decisions post D-day were my own, I own them and I accept any and all responsibility for them. I've made no attempt to hide them nor to try and appear lilly white either. I can tell you one thing though, I'll call em as I see em and I will speak my mind. I know you grind on people sometimes as well WIY, but you have your convictions and you stick by them. I can respect that. Edited April 14, 2011 by What_Next
Steadfast Posted April 15, 2011 Posted April 15, 2011 I am also happy to admit that we are continuing to make such progress. It's been the one of the hardest things I've ever been through but at the end of the day I get to wrap my arms around her at night and fall asleep next to her, so it must have been all worth it. Remembering all you've been through, that is an amazing thing to read W_N. Damn...that's sweet. As for defending cheaters, I'd recommend instead contact and support. Not to encourage what they've done or justify actions, but to be there when the walls come down. And they will, sooner or later. Call it karma or whatever you want, the cheater ends up with the short end of the stick.
TMCM Posted April 15, 2011 Posted April 15, 2011 But from his history, he's not so innocent either.No I most certainly am not WIY. Far from it. My decisions post D-day were my own, I own them and I accept any and all responsibility for them. I've made no attempt to hide them nor to try and appear lilly white either. No disrespect intended but IF you yourself cheated, isn't it hypocritical to judge other FWS? If I'm wrong then please accept my sincerest apologies.
What_Next Posted April 15, 2011 Posted April 15, 2011 TCIM, after D-day I made the stupid mistake to go out and have a revenge affair. It was after we seperated, although it did begin when we were still living under the same roof. It was not hidden, which perhaps makes it all the worse. I am ashamed of what I did, and I have never hid my actions. I certainly am not judging any FWS, far from it. In fact if you read many of my posts you'll see that I try and look at each situation as they present themselves. No disrespect taken, nor was any intended, you are only calling it like you see it and if I were to take offense with that, then I would most definitely be hypocritical. I hope that clears it up.
Summer Breeze Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 It was a rhetorical question not a literal one. I know the difference. My point is that you defend what you know & I 'Jump To The Defense' of what I know. We comment here on what we know. Our Life's Experience. Not someone elses. I understand what you're saying. You've never been a BS so you don't speak for a BS. You have no life's experience as a BS. It seems that your words are being twisted a little bit. Ok, a lot. Making you out to look like you have no feelings and are this or that. I understand what you're saying. In all honesty they do too but it's much more fun and dramatic to take it to the far end. I tend to defend the underdogs in any given situation-if I can. Sorry CIK but I'm finding you the underdog in this scrap so I'm trying to defend you.
Memphis Raines Posted April 18, 2011 Posted April 18, 2011 We comment here on what we know. Our Life's Experience. Not someone elses. glad to hear you say this. so the next time you try to impune someone's advice or comments because they are speaking from their own experience, remember you said the above.
Memphis Raines Posted April 18, 2011 Posted April 18, 2011 I understand what you're saying. You've never been a BS so you don't speak for a BS. You have no life's experience as a BS. I have never committed murder, rape, or any crime against anyone. I have no life experience with those regards. but you aren't going to see me siding with them against their victims.
Summer Breeze Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 I have never committed murder, rape, or any crime against anyone. I have no life experience with those regards. but you aren't going to see me siding with them against their victims. I've never cheated on anyone, but I have learned why my exH cheated on me and I have been known to defend him. I've never raped anyone but was the victim of it in my early 20s and though I never will get over it and can't get to the point of defending him I learned enough about him to explain why. You're welcome to hold your thoughts but I still think this is what cik was getting to and I understand where she's coming from as far as speaking of what she knows.
confusedinkansas Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 Summer - You do get me. Like Shattered on my other "So Not To Thread Jack" thread... Neither of you take the liberty to read between the lines on my posts - Thank you for that. I did post a response..On SNTTJ this morning..kind of goes along with this thread as well.
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