SadInSilence Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 We'll... at least that's what she said in the break up. "I never loved you." Repeated it a couple of times I don't think it was out of anger. Over two years in a relationship, spending nearly every day together. Also, the phrases "I don't know who I am anymore" and "Too me, we broke up long before this" were thrown into the mix. I feel pretty stupid asking, but can that be true? Can you spend that amount of time with someone and not love them? I feel used and upset all the time now, and oscillate between extreme depression and extreme anger/frustration. Were these things said to hurt me, or were they true? Both?
nana841121 Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 I am sorry to say what she said could be true. Being together with you for two years does not mean nothing to her, it might not out of love, but something else, people confused about their feeling all the time. it's too complicated i am positive about that, cause i was once at the position of your ex Try to be happy, she is not a bad person. she doesn't use you she is not clear with her mind, it's her problem about personality Now move on , don't look back in anger.
Hopeless Girl Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 I think what she meant to say was maybe she was never in love with you... i dunno depends on ur relationship.. u should know.. they way she treated you , those little things...
aypforever Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 You have every right to be angry with her.. It makes me think of the "I love you more than you love me" thing I used to do with my ex from high school. Well, in the end, she broke up with me.. so I guess I DID love her more. People say things when they are confused about what they want. Focus your time on finding what you want (outside of your ex). Once you realize who you are outside of the relationship, things get better. If it's really messing with your job/school/other relationships, you should probably go see someone about it.
fetish Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 i think a better question would be to ask yourself is "what could've been her motive for saying this?" Could it have been to hurt you or make you jealous? I'm curious to know how you're so certain she didn't say it out of anger. Think about the events that led up to the breakup. Were you two at eachother's throats? Had you said something to offend her? Did she show signs of cheating or losing interest? People say things in the heat of the moment when they're upset or confused. I know because as hot-headed as my girl was. When we were breaking up, she said i had waited too long to propose to her. I told her, "well you accepted it!" She said then said, " Well i was going to say know but i was caught up in the moment!" Utter BS. That girl had been putting pressure on me to propose to her for years. Point is, you may want to give her a little bit to cool off and simply ask her what made her say that and why she said it. Then go NC.
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