Satzuki Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 He filed divorce last month. It is getting ugly. For 20 years marriage, he only will give 1000/month for 5 years. Although he will give me the house, but right now, the housing market is bad, I'm not sure when the house will be sold. He bought a house for that women, pay the remodel and furniture with his parent joint accounts. According to the state law, I can't get anything from his parent account, but actually, this is our major financial source for the past 12 years. His family financially support us, pay the private school tuitions for our kids. I tried to talk to him about rise the alimony, but he just refused, all he said is : I offered too much for you already, if you don't sign the paper, go to the court and you will get nothing. I'm so afraid, maybe he's right. But I'm also feel unfair. My lawyer said something about forensic accountant. How long will this least? I don't think I can afford the lawyer fee. Should I give up???????
willowthewisp Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 Go with the advice of your lawyer, they will explain the pros and cons of each option. If you don't understand something they said, like the forensic accountant, ask them to explain again until you do understand all the implications of using one. .Do not be bullied by your husbands threats about getting nothing in court, listen to your lawyers opinion, your husband is trying to scare you off, your lawyer knows better.
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