Jazzari Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 I respect her wishes. I might not agree with it, but that is her right. I'm not a stalker. I'd never harm a girl. Seriously though I mean something has to give here. I keep getting turned down. The hottest chick I ever seen in my life I asked out in 2009 at school. She was in my Pilates class and I sat by her. I didn't smother her either. I just started small talking to her every class and chatting with her until one day I got the courage to ask her out and felt the time was right. I just asked her, told her how I wanted to know if we could hangout sometime and get to know each other better. She said sure, and said to get my phone out so I could put her number in it! It was her actually cell number too because we exchanged texts. However a few days later she told me she had a boyfriend and didn't like me that way. I knew she wasn't flaking because I went on her facebook and saw her pic with him. I wondered why if she had a boyfriend why would she be giving her actually cell number out to another guy!Many girls have friends that are men. There's nothing wrong with that if the boundaries are respected. If she had her boyfriend listed on facebook, she may have assumed that you knew that. As for never harming a girl, you're probably doing that already. Don't you understand how upsetting your actions have been? You said that you knew just asking her out made her uncomfortable. How much more upset do you think she is at your continued attention? Seriously, you are hurting her right now. You keep talking about "hot" girls. Maybe you should be looking for girls that are fun to be with and compatible with you.
Author one goal Posted April 13, 2011 Author Posted April 13, 2011 Many girls have friends that are men. There's nothing wrong with that if the boundaries are respected. If she had her boyfriend listed on facebook, she may have assumed that you knew that. As for never harming a girl, you're probably doing that already. Don't you understand how upsetting your actions have been? You said that you knew just asking her out made her uncomfortable. How much more upset do you think she is at your continued attention? Seriously, you are hurting her right now. You keep talking about "hot" girls. Maybe you should be looking for girls that are fun to be with and compatible with you. Well her facebook page most of her info was private, just saw the pic. However I didn't look her up on facebook until after she told me she had a boyfriend. I was just curious to see if she was telling the truth which she was. I seriously went slow with her, hence she wasn't creeped out when I asked her out. that one was depressing though because I apparently did everything right by talking to her quite a bit before finally ask her out. I thought I did everything right, then turns out she wasn't single!
Lucky_One Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 Well her facebook page most of her info was private, just saw the pic. However I didn't look her up on facebook until after she told me she had a boyfriend. I was just curious to see if she was telling the truth which she was. I seriously went slow with her, hence she wasn't creeped out when I asked her out. that one was depressing though because I apparently did everything right by talking to her quite a bit before finally ask her out. I thought I did everything right, then turns out she wasn't single! OMG that was in 2009. Let it go.
lizwashere Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 I honestly hope that the OP is really a troll, because if he's for real I feel sorry for every woman he comes in contact with.
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