one goal Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 It relates to my other thread about the hot teacher. I was curious if maybe I should be honest, and go to the department head and tell her what happend with the teacher and asking her out like that. The dept head happend to be in our class today sitting behind me doing the evaluation of the teacher but I didn't talk to her about it. I thought it over and feel maybe it's the best thing to come forward and tell the truth. Do you think the teachers already mentioned it to her? The dept head, is not the dept dean. The dept head is below him. Do you think they would punish me for coming forward. One note is I NEVER sexually harassed her. Never said anything like that.
Lilmisus Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 What is wrong with you? He just wants attention by asking stupid questions, no one should fall for it.
Author one goal Posted April 13, 2011 Author Posted April 13, 2011 He just wants attention by asking stupid questions, no one should fall for it. No, I'm serious here. I'm considering coming forward with it, but I don't know if it's the right thing to do or not.
veggirl Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 Oh my godddd. LET IT GO. WHAT is the reason you think you need to tell this to your profs boss, again? SERIOUSLY, LET IT GO, HOLY CRAP.
fortyninethousand322 Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 No, I'm serious here. I'm considering coming forward with it, but I don't know if it's the right thing to do or not. It's not the right thing to do. Are you trying to get the professor in trouble or something? Come on man, just let it go.
Lucky_One Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 I figured you meant you were going to be honest here, and admit that you were trolling us. Honestly, NO ONE is this stupid.
Imajerk17 Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 (edited) DROP IT. You will not help your cause. If you are called in, that is the time to explain. Meanwhile, I hope you realized how your not being able to leave this alone had cost you. A month ago, you actually had a shot to end the semester with the teacher thinking well of you, if you took the advice given. You were told to just do a good job in your class and let the instructor be. Instead you peppered her with all sorts of stupid and annoying emails. And then you sent her a Facebook Friend request! Finally you approached her again outside of class for something dumb. Now you need to consider the possibility that some sort of action might be taken against you. Meanwhile, she won't think well of you anytime before Hades freezes over. You creeped her out. You are giving everyone on here the creeps. Edited April 13, 2011 by Imajerk17
Jazzari Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 You've gone beyond creepy to scarily obsessed. Stop now. If not, I see a restraining order in your future.
collegeguy_24 Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 Dude, you are obsessed. Stop it now, you will get a restraining order against you if you continue. and by the way, telling the department head could also get your teacher in trouble. Did you think about that? I am willing to bet not.
Author one goal Posted April 13, 2011 Author Posted April 13, 2011 Dude, you are obsessed. Stop it now, you will get a restraining order against you if you continue. and by the way, telling the department head could also get your teacher in trouble. Did you think about that? I am willing to bet not. How could it get her in trouble if she didn't do anything?
Author one goal Posted April 13, 2011 Author Posted April 13, 2011 DROP IT. You will not help your cause. If you are called in, that is the time to explain. Meanwhile, I hope you realized how your not being able to leave this alone had cost you. A month ago, you actually had a shot to end the semester with the teacher thinking well of you, if you took the advice given. You were told to just do a good job in your class and let the instructor be. Instead you peppered her with all sorts of stupid and annoying emails. And then you sent her a Facebook Friend request! Finally you approached her again outside of class for something dumb. Now you need to consider the possibility that some sort of action might be taken against you. Meanwhile, she won't think well of you anytime before Hades freezes over. You creeped her out. You are giving everyone on here the creeps. So you mean if I would have not asked her out, but instead waited till over the summer you think I would have had a shot then? Even though she's like 12 years my senior?
Lilmisus Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 So you mean if I would have not asked her out, but instead waited till over the summer you think I would have had a shot then? Even though she's like 12 years my senior? Insanity: Doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results. You're asking the same questions over and over again expecting different results. By Einstein's definition, you are insane. Come on, if you're going to drag this story out for weeks, at least throw us something new. Like...."she kicked me out of her class!" or "she called the cops on me for stalking" or even "I'm pretty sure she quit and is on her way to Mexico to avoid me..do I have a shot now that she isn't my teacher? Would it be weird if I followed her to show her how much she means to me??" You're story is repetitive, annoying, and just plain dumb. Stop it. Please, please, please, stop it now.
Author one goal Posted April 13, 2011 Author Posted April 13, 2011 Insanity: Doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results. You're asking the same questions over and over again expecting different results. By Einstein's definition, you are insane. Come on, if you're going to drag this story out for weeks, at least throw us something new. Like...."she kicked me out of her class!" or "she called the cops on me for stalking" or even "I'm pretty sure she quit and is on her way to Mexico to avoid me..do I have a shot now that she isn't my teacher? Would it be weird if I followed her to show her how much she means to me??" You're story is repetitive, annoying, and just plain dumb. Stop it. Please, please, please, stop it now. No, I would never do that stuff. That is criminal behavior. It's just eating away inside me though. I've been nervous about it. I have not been eating well because of my nerves and have lost a few lbs the last couple weeks.
Lucky_One Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 Glad you have dropped weight. Your plumpness has been keeping your hot teacher from pulling your pants down in her office. I think you should go to a 500 calorie a day diet, and start doing a lot of working out. If she is that hot, then she wants a buff stud so she can do lots of videos of you for Youtube.
Lilmisus Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 No, I would never do that stuff. That is criminal behavior. It's just eating away inside me though. I've been nervous about it. I have not been eating well because of my nerves and have lost a few lbs the last couple weeks. If that's the truth, then why would you still continue wondering "what if I waited till the end of the semester.." "why wont she respond to my e-mails?" "why doesn't she add me on Facebook?" "why is she being mean to me?" "do I still have a shot?" "would she think my drawing was cute?" or anything else you've asked. If that is the truth, then you've just been bugging us while you knew the answer all along: that it was wrong to do, and that you have to face the consequences of your actions. We each have told you the best and only thing to do in this situation, and that is to drop it. No more e-mails (especially bringing up the asking her out..which you did again), no more talking to her outside of class, no more interacting with her at all, unless it's to turn in an assignment or unless you raise your hand during class to ask a question. And especially no more obsessing over it. Move on already, and stop posting questions on here that have to do with her. That's the answer to all of your questions, and that's the only answer you're getting. Hopefully you've learned your lesson here to not mess with people if they have any authority over you. No matter how hot they are or how desperate you are to get a girlfriend. Get a prostitute next time, less consequences.
Author one goal Posted April 13, 2011 Author Posted April 13, 2011 If that's the truth, then why would you still continue wondering "what if I waited till the end of the semester.." "why wont she respond to my e-mails?" "why doesn't she add me on Facebook?" "why is she being mean to me?" "do I still have a shot?" "would she think my drawing was cute?" or anything else you've asked. If that is the truth, then you've just been bugging us while you knew the answer all along: that it was wrong to do, and that you have to face the consequences of your actions. We each have told you the best and only thing to do in this situation, and that is to drop it. No more e-mails (especially bringing up the asking her out..which you did again), no more talking to her outside of class, no more interacting with her at all, unless it's to turn in an assignment or unless you raise your hand during class to ask a question. And especially no more obsessing over it. Move on already, and stop posting questions on here that have to do with her. That's the answer to all of your questions, and that's the only answer you're getting. Hopefully you've learned your lesson here to not mess with people if they have any authority over you. No matter how hot they are or how desperate you are to get a girlfriend. Get a prostitute next time, less consequences. Well the problem is I keep getting rejected and it just built up. I finally grown immuned to it, and when I saw this older girl (teacher) and she's single I got carried away because I was pretty desperate, so I threw everything I could at her hoping to get a date.
Cracker Jack Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 Yeah, well, rejection is apart of life. You need to let it go, brah. Really. Solution? Ask out other women.
Lilmisus Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 Well the problem is I keep getting rejected and it just built up. I finally grown immuned to it, and when I saw this older girl (teacher) and she's single I got carried away because I was pretty desperate, so I threw everything I could at her hoping to get a date. Saying that you were pretty desperate is an understatement. You were obsessed and you were extremely desperate. You'd of had to be to ask out someone who you had zero chance with who you knew deep down inside would say no to you as well. Thankfully you realize now that you've gotten carried away. From now on, don't think of her as single and hot, think of her as unavailable and too mature and old for you, just to change the mind frame of things. Like I've said before, you already know the answers to your questions, accept them and move on.
USCGAviator Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 Well the problem is I keep getting rejected and it just built up. I finally grown immuned to it, and when I saw this older girl (teacher) and she's single I got carried away because I was pretty desperate, so I threw everything I could at her hoping to get a date. So what your saying iiiiiis....your not immune. Your everything was apparently not enough homeboy.
Author one goal Posted April 13, 2011 Author Posted April 13, 2011 Saying that you were pretty desperate is an understatement. You were obsessed and you were extremely desperate. You'd of had to be to ask out someone who you had zero chance with who you knew deep down inside would say no to you as well. Thankfully you realize now that you've gotten carried away. From now on, don't think of her as single and hot, think of her as unavailable and too mature and old for you, just to change the mind frame of things. Like I've said before, you already know the answers to your questions, accept them and move on. Why is it girls will date older guys, but when it comes to older chick dating younger guys, they seemed repulsed by it?
Jazzari Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 No, I would never do that stuff. That is criminal behavior. It's just eating away inside me though. I've been nervous about it. I have not been eating well because of my nerves and have lost a few lbs the last couple weeks.Your extreme reaction is unhealthy, unreasonable and far from the simple disappointment you should have felt at her rejection. Talking to the Dept. Head is yet another sign of your unhealthy obsession and willingness to do anything to maintain some sort of contact with her. Your obsession is escalating and that is truly scary. You do not have a shot with this woman. You NEVER will. Your initial request made her uncomfortable. Instead of respecting her wishes you have shown yourself to be emotionally unstable at best and a potentially deranged stalker at worst. If there was ever the tiniest shred of hope (which I don't think there was) you have utterly destroyed it with your actions. If you cannot respect her wishes, then acknowledge that you have a problem and please seek counseling before this spirals completely out of control.
Jazzari Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 Why is it girls will date older guys, but when it comes to older chick dating younger guys, they seemed repulsed by it? Because older men know how to treat a LADY. And they don't refer to them as "chicks" unless they are having a mid-life crisis.
USCGAviator Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 Why is it girls will date older guys, but when it comes to older chick dating younger guys, they seemed repulsed by it? Because most younger guys act like a tryhard. Your mating dance is juvenile and uncoordinated. You have much to learn
Author one goal Posted April 13, 2011 Author Posted April 13, 2011 Your extreme reaction is unhealthy, unreasonable and far from the simple disappointment you should have felt at her rejection. Talking to the Dept. Head is yet another sign of your unhealthy obsession and willingness to do anything to maintain some sort of contact with her. Your obsession is escalating and that is truly scary. You do not have a shot with this woman. You NEVER will. Your initial request made her uncomfortable. Instead of respecting her wishes you have shown yourself to be emotionally unstable at best and a potentially deranged stalker at worst. If there was ever the tiniest shred of hope (which I don't think there was) you have utterly destroyed it with your actions. If you cannot respect her wishes, then acknowledge that you have a problem and please seek counseling before this spirals completely out of control. I respect her wishes. I might not agree with it, but that is her right. I'm not a stalker. I'd never harm a girl. Seriously though I mean something has to give here. I keep getting turned down. The hottest chick I ever seen in my life I asked out in 2009 at school. She was in my Pilates class and I sat by her. I didn't smother her either. I just started small talking to her every class and chatting with her until one day I got the courage to ask her out and felt the time was right. I just asked her, told her how I wanted to know if we could hangout sometime and get to know each other better. She said sure, and said to get my phone out so I could put her number in it! It was her actually cell number too because we exchanged texts. However a few days later she told me she had a boyfriend and didn't like me that way. I knew she wasn't flaking because I went on her facebook and saw her pic with him. I wondered why if she had a boyfriend why would she be giving her actually cell number out to another guy!
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