hurley21 Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 My ex-fiance, who I am loosely back together with, was abused as a child and its obvious that the majority of his issues are because of that. Both parents were physically and emotionally abusive. He has anger bursts, hour long criticism fests where I get to hear how much I suck, he can't handle stress at all w/o taking it out on me, etc. My question is... Where should I draw the line between behavior a person 'can't' help and the things they should have control over? If I blame him, I have every reason in the world to leave. If I don't blame him, then I sympathize with him and let it keep happening...
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