counterman Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 So today I was waiting for a train and there was this girl a few feet away from me. She was really attractive. As I was waiting, she turned facing me and started fixing her dress, I couldn't help but look. When she looked up, I quickly turned away. She took a few steps forward and then faced the front again. Was that a hint? Usually with this kind of situation I don't do anything...because I'm scared she'll think I'm a creep, but I'm starting to feel uneasy. I haven't dated in about 6 months and haven't been intimate for over a year now. It's getting uncomfortable. I remember Green said something about using your horniness...and I am starting to really feel it, to the point I have to do something about it or else I'm just gonna go mad. So, what I am asking is in public situations, because I'm still in college, girls, would you be okay if a guy just randomly approaches you and hits on you? Also, should I be hitting on every girl I find attractive? Also, do girls actually give hints?
musemaj11 Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 It wasnt a hint. You were just so desperate that you imagined stuff. It happens to all of us.
Jazzari Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 If a girl is open to meeting new people, she will make eye contact and smile at you. If she does, say hi. If she replies, but then turns away then she's not interested. If she replies and maintains eye contact, then talk to her and see where it goes.
Author counterman Posted April 13, 2011 Author Posted April 13, 2011 It wasnt a hint. You were just so desperate that you imagined stuff. It happens to all of us. Yeah, this was what I was thinking but not hoping for I tend not to talk any sort of cues or hints that I might think are because I might just be hoping that they are indeed hints, instead of really being them. If a girl is open to meeting new people, she will make eye contact and smile at you. If she does, say hi. If she replies, but then turns away then she's not interested. If she replies and maintains eye contact, then talk to her and see where it goes. Thanks for the advice. What I have noticed is that some girls are really open to just talking and others are really reluctant. There's this girl who is in one of my classes that I have spoken to twice. I met her last year and then saw her earlier this week. I really want to ask her out but I can't tell if she's interested from our two really brief conversations. Along with her, and say, that girl I saw at the train station, should I just ask them out?
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