chelle21689 Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 (edited) I've been seeing this guy for 8 weeks now. We talk every night on average an hour and half. We see each other once or twice on the weekend. He knows I got out of a long term relationship a month before we started seeing each other and agreed to take things slow and not rush me. It took him a month to finally hold my hand and be touchy. 6 weeks we had the opportunity to spend the night and cuddle at my friend's house after a night out at the bar (He is 21 and I'm 22...we still live with parents). He's introduced me to all his friends except family. He's met all my friends and a few siblings from my birthday party where we first met. We usually go on group outings but have been alone on a date like 4 times. We've never been over each other's houses. It still feels like we're acquaintances and not getting closer because we're not alone, cuddled only once (which was amazing although just PG, and haven't kissed yet =(. I doubt he's moved this slow with other girls. I'm way too shy to kiss him. I'm not wanting to rush into a relationship but I just feel like we're going at a snail's pace Edited April 13, 2011 by chelle21689
musemaj11 Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 What do you want us to do? Tell him what you just said? Tell me his address and phone number. Ill tell him right now.
Author chelle21689 Posted April 13, 2011 Author Posted April 13, 2011 "Hi, I want you to kiss me...because you haven't." LOL
kiss_andmakeup Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 Holy crap; 8 weeks in and you still haven't kissed? That's downright bizarre. You said you were "cuddling" while at your friends house but there was no kissing? I'm afraid you might have to be the initiator here, as much as you might not want to. Next time you're cuddling or holding hands or being otherwise close or vaguely intimate, give him a kiss. I'm sure he'll respond favourably. By the way, is this the guy who wouldn't pay for dates?
Velociraptor Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 I've been seeing this guy for 8 weeks now. We talk every night on average an hour and half. We see each other once or twice on the weekend. He knows I got out of a long term relationship a month before we started seeing each other and agreed to take things slow and not rush me. It took him a month to finally hold my hand and be touchy. 6 weeks we had the opportunity to spend the night and cuddle at my friend's house after a night out at the bar (He is 21 and I'm 22...we still live with parents). He's introduced me to all his friends except family. He's met all my friends and a few siblings from my birthday party where we first met. We usually go on group outings but have been alone on a date like 4 times. We've never been over each other's houses. It still feels like we're acquaintances and not getting closer because we're not alone, cuddled only once (which was amazing although just PG, and haven't kissed yet =(. I doubt he's moved this slow with other girls. I'm way too shy to kiss him. I'm not wanting to rush into a relationship but I just feel like we're going at a snail's pace You wanted to take things slow... And you got it.
Author chelle21689 Posted April 13, 2011 Author Posted April 13, 2011 KissandMakeup: We were at the bar and went to sleep at 5am and I don't think morning breath the next day would've been great for a kiss lol. Yup same guy that didn't pay but if you read back on my post there was a break through. He didn't make me pay and he also paid for my drink at the bar. I know it's small but hey gotta start some where. I thought he'd never pay for anything.
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