I thought this was a pretty good community,so here it is. be positive.

[comerp22]

Information about me: Im a Freshman but that doesnt mean i dont know what i want. Shes one too. We have history since the 7th grade and here it is.

Me and this girl went out for a half a year and things were going very well until one day where she said that she didnt like me anymore. I told her to tell me if she ever felt different but i never thought that that day would come cause i knew she loved me and she knew i loved her but im not sure what happend. Before we broke up we started talking about kissing and i dont know if this is what made her be scared and back out or what?

She is the love of my life. She is beautiful, cute, smart, caring, loving, and really has a nice personality. NO guys she is not a bitch she is the nicest person ive ever known so i dont want to here that kind of stuff.

Right now we talk everyday in text and she has made a strong point that she really wants to be friends with me but is not ready for a boyfreind. What is this? and would there really be a point of going on the NC. Cause I think that would make things even worse with us. Is it worth it? Ive made the decision to wait and theres really no changing this but i really need to know whats going on and what i should do to keep this relationship alive until shes ready.

Ive never hated on you guys so please be respectful and dont hate on me for what im doing. Thank you for reading. Peace.

[Arabella]

Aww... I'm sorry you're so worried and obviously hurting, comerp22.

 

All I can say is that you are both very young, and it's understandable if she doesn't feel like she is ready for a boyfriend. All you can do is respect her decision and move on. You can choose to keep her in your life if you want to, but don't pester her about the relationship. Just be casual friends. Keep in touch.

 

She might or might not come around in time, but meanwhile, you should do your best to focus on other people and things to keep you busy.

 

Best of luck,

 

Arabella