angel123 Posted April 12, 2011 Posted April 12, 2011 (edited) Hello All, I would really appreciate any advice, I'm very lost and hurt, and it's not like me.. I've known my boyfriend for 2 years. He was married for the first year or so I knew him his and his wife filed for divorce almost a year ago, not final yet. At first I wanted nothing to do with him romantically but we started hanging out more, and eventually started dating. He is a very nice, sweet and caring man. I have never loved someone so much before in such a short time. After some time I did get quite attached to him and I became the one that started to talk more about us. Recently I went through a very hard personal situation, which he was there for me during, but I could tell it started to wear on him as I was acting a little different than my normal self. He told me at one point he doesn't like the person I'm acting as, but still kept with me. We got into a pretty big disagreement last week and I told him that evening I needed some time to get back to my normal self as I felt bad for the way I was acting. He said he would like nothing more than for us to find a healthy way to the other side, and he would think of me often until he saw me again. I gave it a couple days to think, and contacted him yesterday. It took him about 2 hours to respond to me, he normally responds right away. He has A LOT going on with work, and a little drama with his wife (he has no desire to see her again btw). he basically told me he would be very busy until his trade show was over, which is in 2.5 weeks! We have tickets to go somewhere together next month, and he asked if we could at least keep that on the table. Is he really busy and still wants to see me, or does it sound like he has lost interest? Maybe he has met someone else, I'm not sure, but I don't want to bug him anymore, so i'm maintaining NC. Is this the best thing to do ? Edited April 12, 2011 by angel123
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