Sanman Posted April 12, 2011 Posted April 12, 2011 Girl 'B' is the best fit for me balance wise as far as the things I want right now, at least on paper. I think when it comes down to it I just need more time with her. I think it would be awesome to have it grow more, especially since we already share a circle of friends. I just can't deny what I have with 'C'. So now comes the hard part. What you have said here is important. You may very well have good chemistry with 'C' and she may enjoy a relationship with you. However, a lasting relationship needs more than chemistry. It needs some level of compatibility. Without that, the friction you have now that is energizing may become exhausting over a longer period when the newness and fun wear off. Do you think you have that compatibility with 'C' or not? I understand why you may not introduce a woman to friends and family prior to an exclusive relationship. I am the same way usually. However, I have learned the value of introducing a prospective girl to two of my good friends and those two are generally insightful and able to see the girl without the rose tinted glasses. They also know me well enough to have an idea of what I need.
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