Mixed28 Posted April 12, 2011 Posted April 12, 2011 Someone told me that evryone needs their heart broken once in order to start lving and realize reality. Whats your thoughts?
Strength of Heart Posted April 12, 2011 Posted April 12, 2011 It definitely needs to happen once, with some people it's even better if it happens more than once. Live and Learn. Heartbreak is the biggest learning experience one can have, and depending on how you handle it, it can either change your life for the better or for worse. Take the high road everyone, stay strong and continue to improve yourself day by day by learning.
Author Mixed28 Posted April 12, 2011 Author Posted April 12, 2011 Also I think it emphazies our humanity. It hurts like hell however we learn that we are ble to care for someone and really loving someone is the ultimate gift we can give.
Fufu Posted April 12, 2011 Posted April 12, 2011 It definitely needs to happen once, with some people it's even better if it happens more than once. Live and Learn. Heartbreak is the biggest learning experience one can have, and depending on how you handle it, it can either change your life for the better or for worse. Take the high road everyone, stay strong and continue to improve yourself day by day by learning. I completely agree with Strength of Heart
smudge21 Posted April 12, 2011 Posted April 12, 2011 Was discussing this yesterday with a friend. We both know people who have never had their hearts broken, but that's because they've never been in love. So as much as they've never experienced the sheer mind-numbing pain of a break-up, they've never also experienced the utter joy and life fullfilling pleasure of being in love.
Author Mixed28 Posted April 12, 2011 Author Posted April 12, 2011 Was discussing this yesterday with a friend. We both know people who have never had their hearts broken, but that's because they've never been in love. So as much as they've never experienced the sheer mind-numbing pain of a break-up, they've never also experienced the utter joy and life fullfilling pleasure of being in love. Exactly. Also when people say it's better to be single I don't think they have been in love and in a stable healthy relationship. although you should be happy by yourself and be content. A good relationship with someone you love is better hands down then being single. Heres my formula Good Loving Relationship > Single and Happy > Bad Unhealthy Relationship
nana841121 Posted April 12, 2011 Posted April 12, 2011 Our hearts are strong and filled with affection, which is a good sign . Love is an ability , not everyone is capable of giving and receiving love Embrace hope and the desire of pursuit of happiness, we are better than we thought we were. Wound will heal itself, don't worry about that. The bottom line is we wouldn't die from "heartbroken"
nana841121 Posted April 12, 2011 Posted April 12, 2011 And if you've never been hurt, you don't know how precious love is and how to identify the genuine affection. Everything happened to you depends on how you perceive it
Mcnulty Posted April 12, 2011 Posted April 12, 2011 I don't think you NEED to have your heartbroken to gain empathy and appreciate the people around you. Some of the most wonderful people I have met haven't had their heartbroken...(I don't think) and that brings with it an innocent naivety in a personality that is very endearing, so no, as a rule, I don't think its needed. Look at couples who were childhood sweethearts and have lived their lives together happily...it does and CAN happen.
Movingthrough Posted April 12, 2011 Posted April 12, 2011 Heartbreak is the biggest learning experience This basically sums it up, most of us who have either broke it off or been the dumpee, have seen all the mistakes we have made. Its like a common trait what most dumpees do when a relationship ends because we want it to work so bad. BUT every dumpee knows that if it happens again they will not handle it the same way, that right there answers the question and proves its something we need to learn. The hardest part, the trick, is to not get bitter because of it. Its very easy to "watch out" from this point on about relationships because you were hearbroken. In reality, you cant blanket every relationship off of that so you have to learn and move on. I feel like in the breakup process there are a lot of paths you can take in the road to healing, and at some point you have to get on the right one which is forgiveness and moving on.
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