Bionic Me Posted April 15, 2011 Posted April 15, 2011 Oh Tyler... I honestly think that this woman is a greater addiction than your alcoholism. Good luck!
Heart On Posted April 15, 2011 Posted April 15, 2011 (edited) Well i texted her back _ ugh i know. 'Ugh' is right.I guess you have moved into the bargaining/rationalizing phase. Good luck,it's a hard one to escape from alone. Edited April 15, 2011 by Heart On
Author tyler123 Posted April 15, 2011 Author Posted April 15, 2011 No bargaining or rationlizing just felt like i was being a conflict avoider- i did not ask her what she was doing this weekend or to call me or anything like that. i just told her i was not calling her back because she is in the right place - with her kids and not with me.. i have not made plans to speak with her- and i actually feel better that i did not take her breadcrumbs as in invitation to reconcile- i am good and have plans all weekend that do not include talking with her. i guess i broke the NC- i know this girl not 1 month but 4yrs and i would not feel comfortable having her call me and text me - and left feeling like i was hiding. I am not hiding- i will make it clear to her that i am focusing on my life- and i have no room for her in it
Heart On Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 Hey,it's your life and the only person you need to answer to is yourself. I was wrong.But that's why I'm here so it's nothing new to me. I'm sorting thru my own stuff too and I certainly don't know all! It sounds like you are setting some better boundaries for yourself. That should make alot of difference. I wish you well.
SoMovinOn Posted April 16, 2011 Posted April 16, 2011 This sounds pretty simple to me. You started with a dysfunctional, one sided relationship, and that's what you still have. Walk away.
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