scope Posted April 11, 2011 Posted April 11, 2011 hello everyone. i recently broke up with my LDR ex. we were together for 3 yrs and i dumped him. 6 wks later he starting dating someone else. a girl he met 5 yrs ago but didnt really talked to her bc he wasnt interested in her. she just got out of a relationship as well, he told me that her ex cheated on her. 6 wks after we broke up he told me that he didnt love me anymore, he moved on and he was seeing her. two or 3 wks after dating her, they fell in love. its been almost 3 months now and it has been a roller coaster for me and these pass few days feels like i'm back in step 1 all over again. i called him last night to tell him that it's my last goodbye forever bc i needed to smile for myself, i need to be happy and i need to move on with myself, that i cant continue to love someone who cant love me in return. he told me that the door is always open and that i can always call him if i ever needed something... i cant do that bc i know that if i let myself do that i'll just be stuck in the past and get hurt all over again. i guess i just need advise now bc i dont want to bother my friends about it anymore...it's been almost 3 months, i should be getting better but i'm not thanks for listening
broken-and-lost Posted April 11, 2011 Posted April 11, 2011 Really sorry for your pain, it's been said a lot on here you have to try and go NC to try and forget and move on, if he is with someone else then whether it works or not with the new person, really doesn't matter anymore he may have got with that person for the wrong reasons because you dumped him or not but at this stage you've said all you can and it's time to start the healing the longer you stay in contact the harder it becomes to focus on you. Really hope you start feeling better in time
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