Mov Posted April 11, 2011 Posted April 11, 2011 And we have been communicating through emails, and it is getting to a point where it is starting a fight again...i have just sent this as my final message and going to continue NC..heres the letter, You have to accept some blame for the deceit on your part (for whatever reason) but i am big enough to admit that on my part, I screwed up, and misinterpreted our situation but wanted you to know that bringing unhappy feelings into your life is literally the opposite of what I wanted to do for you-and people's feeling are very important to me. Sometimes I assume too much. I see a strong woman and I forget that emotions are a more delicate, and I'll feel bad if I knew I upset you. I think you bring a lot to the table with your loyalty, caring and strength. Those were the qualities I hoped to build from (although a little more forgiveness wouldn't kill ya!) It's in my nature to correct my wrong turns, so I wanted to send you this final message. Thank-you for being my love for the last 3 years, but you have made your decision, and i have to respect that, and i should not really be wanting to be with someone that doesn't want to be with me. I do love you, but that means i now have to walk away completely, putting aside any grievances that i have about how you have reacted, i know you, and now must just cherish the time we had together and wish you had acted different in the end. Be happy *****, if i can not do that, then i hope you find something that does. If you remember anything about me, just remember that i loved you, come what may, always and forever, and not even your anger and hate can make that stop and if you ever find yourself without anyone to turn to then you know where i am, i am not going to hide. There is so much more i want to say but i am not really meant to be talking to you as it's not what you want. I am going to miss you very much. With lots of regards from ****** whats peoples thought? TY in advance.
Author Mov Posted April 11, 2011 Author Posted April 11, 2011 well i then got a few more emails, and i have worked out that we were so close the only way we could move on is by hating each other (ldr), thats her view (so said my psychologist sister) and it made perfect sense. We have fallen out more and i am not pining for her as i was, i am more annoyed and part of me is glad to be away from it. This might help with NC as in my mind now there is no doubt we will EVER get back together.
VJohnson32 Posted April 12, 2011 Posted April 12, 2011 Looks familiar We all have sent emotional emails to our ex's, its completely normal. By letting her go and telling her you want nothing more than happiness for her has to be the most honorable thing you can do at this point. Just dont screw it up a week or a month later by asking her for a chance
nomad26 Posted April 12, 2011 Posted April 12, 2011 Honestly, the best way is just drop dead invisible, vanished with no trace at all... you'll be surprise the impact of that. Wait 3 to 6 months till you heal up... then either comeback or email them back.
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