ihatedrama Posted April 11, 2011 Posted April 11, 2011 My ex dumped me for another girl around one month ago. The break up was a mess. After I figured out how horrible he was, it kinda made me move on pretty quick and I started to feel way better. Anyway, I went on a date with a guy I met on a dating website. He is an Italian guy. Things went well. We went for a drink then he actually joined me to have a dinner with some of my girlfriends (I told him I had to go meet them for dinner so can only have a drink with him that day). So we spent lots of time that night, drinks, dinner, clubs. He seems quite sweet and gave me a ride at home that night. He asked me out the following day as well. We went on for coffee and dinner. He did tell me he really likes me and what shocked me was he even asked me whether I am seeing someone else as well and he said it is hard for him to find someone he likes so much and he prefers to only date me now. There might be one problem. He seems too "sweet" somehow. I mean he gave lots of compliments and kept asking me how I felt about him. And he did try to be physically more close to me. He kissed my cheek constantly the first night we met when we were dancing at the club. And we did end up kissing each other the second date we went on. (yeah..I didn't refuse as I do like him a lot as well) So things seem all good. But I feel I still have so many doubts now. I constantly worry he might just want to have sex with me since I do believe when things are too good, it is usually not the case. Any advices here? Thanks
SincereOnlineGuy Posted April 12, 2011 Posted April 12, 2011 We don't really have anything by which to condemn this guy. He could be the one you've always wanted to find, and he could be something far less. You will just need to wait and see...
Karlie Posted April 12, 2011 Posted April 12, 2011 I think Sincere Online Guy is right: it's too early to tell. Give him a chance, but don't ignore your intuition... Good luck!!
zakfar Posted April 12, 2011 Posted April 12, 2011 Maybe you're right. He's just on for sex. Maybe you're wrong. He's madly in love with you. (Do you believe in love at first sight?) What's bothering you actually? Why are you being afraid of him leaving you, when you haven't really met? We don't stop living the life, because of fear of death. Go with the flow. If he's on for the sex, give it a try. If he would be serious, you will learn it just after that. I hope it helps.
Author ihatedrama Posted April 12, 2011 Author Posted April 12, 2011 Thanks for the replies. Yeah..I think I am being too cautious. Maybe because I am still not ready to start something so soon after the break. He seems to be too "perfect" so far and it makes me scared. He now simply texts me everyday by telling me how lucky he is to meet me and how wonderful I am. Those sweet talks make me feel maybe even too much. My friends have been telling most Italian guys are like that (I have no clue). But I actually would rather he shows he actually wants to know me better instead of keep giving me flatteries constantly. I told him in a nice way already that it is a bit too much. But he seems still does it though.
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