y2k Posted April 11, 2011 Posted April 11, 2011 I'm not married or anything like that. I'm in my 20's. Another georgous MW has the hots for me. I've actually mentioned this on loveshack before but after reading all the forums, I think this is the best place to get advice. I want to know if I should make a move on her or if I should wait for her to make a move on me. If I have to make a move on her, HOW would I go about doing it??? Kissing her right away?? Touching her shoulder??? Saying she's sexy??? How???? She's older than I am (about 10 years or so). She's married. But from what I heard, she may not be so happy. She smiles and turns into a little girl every time she's near me. Mind you she's an older woman in her 30's. She's made comments to my mother saying that I'm really handsome and that I'm a hunk (her words). But this woman also flirts with me a ton, even in front of my mother (no joking). My mom even realized that this woman REALLY likes me. My mom almost gets scared every time we see her, because my mother realizes the way she looks and acts next to me. My mom and this woman are on the board of our co-cop building, so they see each other weekly. Any excuse this woman has to come to my apartment (I still live with my mom and family), she finds. My mom realizes she comes not to attend to building issues, she comes to see me. Like when she rings the bell, she runs in the apartment before my mom can even invite her inside. My room is next to the living room, and she RUNS right near it. She keeps asking her where I am, what I do, etc. The other day, my mom and this woman were fixing the cameras of the building, and it spotted me walking out in the hallway. The woman realized it was me when my mother couldn't make me out on camera. The woman then told my mom "I know his walk and the way he moves, that has to be him, I know it!!!". The woman basically notices every detail of me, while she doesn't put anywhere near as much attention to the building. Needless to say, my mom gets the creeps every time the woman talks about me. My mother can tell she has the hots for me. So can I. Two weeks ago, she asked my mother if I had a girlfriend, but she asked it as if she were a little girl. Mind you all she's a mature woman everywhere else. Then we were alone for a few seconds in the elevator and she gets so tense and nervous. This is regular from her. OF course I'm also nervous but I hide it well . And like I said earlier, the looks she gives me.......WOW. So if any woman or man has had this experience, please give me advice. If I were to make a move, HOW EXACTLY DO I GO ABOUT DOING IT??? Should I wait till she strikes?? Do I touch her somewhere first and wait for a specific sign?? Any experiences?? etc And please, if you're offended by it, don't post. I understand she's married but I'm not the one cheating, and I could care less about her husband. I really only want to hear from the people who were either in any side of this situation, or people with real advice on exactly how to do it. Thanks.
anne1707 Posted April 11, 2011 Posted April 11, 2011 I thought it all sounded too familiar http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?t=257502
Author y2k Posted April 11, 2011 Author Posted April 11, 2011 Yeah I know. But now I'm coming here for help. I haven't seen her in a while but I know I'll see her within the next two weeks. I want to be ready. People, if you can, please help with you experiences. Drop your knowledge.
anne1707 Posted April 11, 2011 Posted April 11, 2011 I'll agree to an extent. Or at least I can talk about myself. Yes I want her to "break me in" so to speak. I want to bang her until I become a pro. I've only had a few experiences, but nothing what this woman can offer me. Trust me, you can sense the fact that she's a pro being near her. She's got a figure to die for and she GOT A TRAMP STAMP ON HER LOWER BACK!!!! lol But if I was in love, my penis would be only for my wife. I'd have no problem being with one woman if I fell in love with her. But I haven't fallen in love yet. In fact, I can argue that I'm thinking with both my penis and brain because I only want to bang this woman. I wouldn't be dumb enough to fall in love with her and be with her like that. Just knowing how she met her husband, and how she flirts with me and gives me the looks and all the stuff she's done being married makes me realize she's not wife material. I mean physically she easily is. But after that......nope. So I used my brain and realized I only want to bang her. But to tell you all the truth, I'm thinking twice about it. I have no doubt that if I get away with it, she can give me the ride of my life (literally). But she's a bimbo. That means she won't be able to keep her mouth SHUT. And her husband is a local politician (aka he knows people). I don't want a bullet inside of me. He doesn't seem like the nice type. I mean if it was hand-to-hand, I'd f*&k him up easily but a crazy nutjob jealous husband never fights hand-to-hand so.... But what if she tells me they're probably going to get divorced or something like that???? Then I'd really think twice. I'll keep you all updated. I know that within the beginning of the new year (after the holidays), I'll see her and get potential moments alone with her. But I'd love more opinions and thoughts. Thought I would just post this so others can see how well you talk about this woman http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=3158766&highlight=tramp+stamp#post3158766
OldOnTheInside Posted April 11, 2011 Posted April 11, 2011 Well, I won't go with the "empathy for the husband or his family" route since you obviously couldn't care less. I'd advise you to think with your big head instead of your little one and assess the risks vs benefits however. Benefits: -A really good lay. Risks: -You said her husband was a powerful politician, if he finds out than you are effed. -You called her "trashy" didn't you? How high do you think the STD risk is? -How long has she been visiting your parents house? She gives off a bit of a stalker vibe don't you think? -Your mother can tell that something is going on. I'm sure she will notice if the dynamics of the relationship between you and MW change. Do you want to put Mum through that? You have been obsessing over this for nearly 5 months at least. Either do what you have to do or let her go.
BB07 Posted April 11, 2011 Posted April 11, 2011 (edited) So you are in your 20's...........ha ha, yeah right. You write like you are about 12. Why don't you ask your mommy if it's ok with her if you bang the neighbors wife. Ummmmmm I looked back at your old posts because I suspected you were a troll and I found this one where you admitted you were 15. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showpost.php?p=3037329&postcount=12 Perhaps the mod should be notified that you are underage. Edited April 11, 2011 by BB07
Heart On Posted April 11, 2011 Posted April 11, 2011 I'm 15 now/I'm in my 20's Nice catch BB07. Either way......the answer to her happiness is not in cheating with you.
WorldIsYours Posted April 11, 2011 Posted April 11, 2011 So you are in your 20's...........ha ha, yeah right. You write like you are about 12. Why don't you ask your mommy if it's ok with her if you bang the neighbors wife. Ummmmmm I looked back at your old posts because I suspected you were a troll and I found this one where you admitted you were 15. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showpost.php?p=3037329&postcount=12 Perhaps the mod should be notified that you are underage. These OM/OW who are grown ass adults act just like a teenager, which is humorously pathetic.
BB07 Posted April 11, 2011 Posted April 11, 2011 These OM/OW who are grown ass adults act just like a teenager, which is humorously pathetic. And it could be said that grown ass adults who make it their mission to take a dump with comments littered all around are humorously pathetic also.
MorningCoffee Posted April 11, 2011 Posted April 11, 2011 And it could be said that grown ass adults who make it their mission to take a dump with comments littered all around are humorously pathetic also. Hear, hear!!
WorldIsYours Posted April 11, 2011 Posted April 11, 2011 And it could be said that grown ass adults who make it their mission to take a dump with comments littered all around are humorously pathetic also. Oh yea right someone is pathetic because one doesn't condone cheaters. Says the people who are busy tearing up people's marriages.
jthorne Posted April 11, 2011 Posted April 11, 2011 So you are in your 20's...........ha ha, yeah right. You write like you are about 12. Why don't you ask your mommy if it's ok with her if you bang the neighbors wife. Ummmmmm I looked back at your old posts because I suspected you were a troll and I found this one where you admitted you were 15. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showpost.php?p=3037329&postcount=12 Perhaps the mod should be notified that you are underage.Sounds like the wishful thinking of a hormonal 15 year-old boy. Probably one of mom's friends that Junior here likes to think about in the shower fantasize about. I don't know many 30+ year-old women who would give a second look to an inexperienced 15 year-old boy. Tramp stamp or not.
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