I don't get it! Why do men stop calling after things are going so well?!

[Egychick]

I met a great great guy online! For so long I've been waiting to find a guy who likes me just as much as I like him. We got along well, had many of the same interests, he's a Christian heavily involved in church, ambitious, charming, good looking, funny, and well-put together. He's a model, and also studying business. He called me, apologized when he was late or couldn't talk to me on any given day. And we were both developing feelings for each other. I never in my life developed feelings for a guy so soon...I actually thought, is he the one?! Things were going beautifully, even he felt the same for me too. Funny thing is...while he posted my picture as his profile picture on Facebook, people would ask him, who is that? He would reply, my future wife. Normally, I would have been weirded out by this, happening within the 1st month. But with him, I was flattered and liked it, as I wanted him to be "the one."

 

The problem is...we are living in 2 different countries. We were planning to meet in June. And plan from there. He said he had never been in a LDR before, but he felt I was worth it. So, one day, I mentioned something about a virus on my computer...and joked that, no, I didn't get it from watching porn. So, we just started talking, not in a sexual way, but just about his sexual life. He seemed to be more experienced than me, and I guess I was sort of at a loss. But it didn't mean that we were not compatible...just I could learn from him, I guess. So he mentioned something about cyber sex, but I wasn't interested. After that, he kinda got cold on me...We always talk by cam and phone. But when I asked this time, he was like "he kinda wanted to." (Go on the cam). He also took 3 hours to message me back...after I asked him if he was sleep...and he replied he wasn't (by that time I was already sleeping). So now, since Wednesday, I haven't heard from him. I left a text, and no reply. He has me featured on his profile pic in Facebook, but he still hasn't called me back.

 

What's the deal? Is he busy? Or not interested? Or afraid of a LDR? Should I call him and see what is up with him? What should I do??? Help pls!!

Edited April 11, 2011 by Egychick

[Eddie Edirol]

Hes not interested. Sounds like he just wanted someone who would experiment with him and thats it. You said no and he moved on. He pulled the wool over your eyes real good. Keep in mind he could have easily been looking for women that are in his country while he was talking to you, and he might have found one.