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Would you ever go after a friend's girlfriend? What if you were not going to be in contact with your friend anyway because you moved away? Would you feel like a horrible person for doing that? Even if you really liked the girl? Please be honest.

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Would you ever go after a friend's girlfriend? What if you were not going to be in contact with your friend anyway because you moved away? Would you feel like a horrible person for doing that? Even if you really liked the girl? Please be honest.

 

Nope. Never. For various reasons. The most significant one being that I like my friends. They're cool people that I consider pretty close to family.

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No.. I also would never have dated a friends ex..

 

Some things are just off limits...

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Not my style. At all.

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If I consider this guy a friend then I would say hell no!

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Would you ever go after a friend's girlfriend? What if you were not going to be in contact with your friend anyway because you moved away? Would you feel like a horrible person for doing that? Even if you really liked the girl? Please be honest.

 

Hell no!!! My buddy has a thing for homely-looking women with broken teeth.

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Would it make a difference if all 3 of you were friends and she went after YOU?

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No......... you blow her off with the I don't date friends GF's or EX's line...

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So what do I do if I really really like this guy? Is there any hope? Are you saying that even if I broke up with this guy, who lives 1000 miles away and it's just not working out, there is no hope to be with this other guy that lives much closer to me?

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Priness.. there are people out there that date their friends GF's and BF's and EX's even but I won't do that...

 

That kind of stuff never ends good and you wind up without the person you went after and you also lose the friendship..

 

Why bring unnecessary drama into your life ?

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So what do I do if I really really like this guy? Is there any hope? Are you saying that even if I broke up with this guy, who lives 1000 miles away and it's just not working out, there is no hope to be with this other guy that lives much closer to me?

 

How good of friends are these guys? If the friend dates you then his friendship with the other guy is over. I have personally seen several long term friendships ruined over this kind of thing. Guys who essentially live down the street from each other and yet are no longer on speaking terms. If the other guy doesn't care about the friendship then maybe he dates you. But if he does, then I wouldn't do it, unless you don't care about their friendship.

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Moviefraud, that was a very interesting statement. I got the feeling this guy wants to find a girl like me but u may have a point that he wants a girl LIKE ME and not actually me. Thank you for that wisdom.

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