Hopeless Girl Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 Im afraid my ex is gonna start dating his best friend... Theyve been best friends since he broke with his ex (she used to be her best friend) (like a year and a half). Thy developed a strange bond where she liked him but he never gave her attention. ANyways theyre always together, she texts him "do u miss me" and "i love u" things like that. He always told me not to get jealous and i relaxed. She never included me in anything. Its been 2 days NC and I cant get it off my mind. If this were to happen Id be devastated. I asked him once "did you ever ask her out? and he was like "i always ask her out" and im like "what?" and he was like "i always ask her out shes my best friend" and im like "ur confusing me" and he said "to hang out thats it" ... I would be terribly hurt if they started dating...
betterdeal Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 The best thing you can do is be glad you're not mixed up in this any more. Clearly it was an upsetting time for you and what they do is their business - don't let it interfere in your happiness.
nana841121 Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 You are scared of the possibiity of their being together because if it is true. it means your ex has been betrayed your love long time ago when you were still in a relationship It's a self-esteem issue. But the truth is you have alreayd broken up with each other it doesn't matter who is his next girlfriend anymore get him off your mind by doing something else get yourself busy you will survive
zakfar Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 Stop yourself from finding out what he is doing, and with whom he's planning to be with. You are broken with him, so forget about his current life. Get back to your personal life, personal issues, and start living your own life. More you stay away from him, better it is to you.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted April 12, 2011 Posted April 12, 2011 Im afraid my ex is gonna start dating his best friend... She wouldn't be significant in his life if he didn't see himself as being in line for her heart. That is the only reason he is in it, as is the case with almost all male-female friendships which arise from purely casual situations not caused by close physical proximity for reasons of work, residence or other almost forced interaction.
Fufu Posted April 12, 2011 Posted April 12, 2011 I agree with nana841121, you will survive from this. Start doing positive things to make you happy and to move on.
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