TomerT Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 Dear all (ladies especially), I will very thankful if you could help me to understand a women mind So, about two months ago I meat a nice girl (she is ~30) at some party...Since then we were "in touch" once in a while... Two days ago we went to another party together (as friends)... Now here starts an interesting part - she insisted to leave her car near my place and go to the party with my car, which is totally ok...We came back pretty late and she had to drive to her home outside city and then wake up early the next morning to go to work back to the city...Since we werae already near my home (and she also wanted glass of water before she is driving back) I suggested her to stay at my place...Of course, she was a little bit "reluctant" ("I am not sure, I have nothing to change, I didn't plan"...blah blah blah.. . I promised her that she will be "safe" and eventually she agreed to stay.. When we went to sleep (it was pretty late already) - I grabbed my pillow and blanket and headed to sleep on the couch (and gave her my queen bad ) - she asked me to stay...I wasn't reluctant at all... Anyway, when we in bed - we talked a little bit..eventually I thought it will be "stupid" from my side if I will do nothing..right ? So I gently kissed her - she didn't resisted at all...I I kissed her again (she just told: "I didn't expect this to come", but didn't resist at all)...I didn't feel any resistance, but on the other hand I also didn't feel any "cooperation" from her side...So we cuddled a little bit and eventually went to sleep (nothing happened - just to be clear)...the next morning we also cuddled a little bit (nothing serious), ate quick breakfast and headed to our own businesses...No goodbye kiss, just "we will talk later" form her side... It is already almost two days - we didn't talk since then, just exchanged several sms messages... Now, my question is - does this all mean anything ? I don't want to be "pushy" and call her...I think she has a clear idea that I am interested (and I am also a "nice" guy )....How should I act ? Is she interested in something more ? or this is "end of story" from her side ? May be I had to be more "man" the other night ? How should I act when (if) eventually we meet - I suppose we are still not a couple, on the other hand I think kissing and cuddling also mean something...or not ? I am confused... Any comments and insight are more than welcome Thanks in advance to all !
WellLetsSee Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 Gee if it was me acting like this, I could tell you I was not really interested. But than I hopefully would never get myself into a situation like with a guy that I do not really like. This all acting passive and reluctant ... really not my style. But I think I am an exception and there are many women who expect the guy to win her over. I think it can do no harm if you are persistent. If she is a type like me, she will at a point take a stand and tell you straight out that she is not interested. And if she most likely is not like me you might actually have some good chance with her I think. I could imagine she is sitting there wondering to herself whether you are interested or not as you did not make any more moves in that night. Twisted, hu? But thats how it is.
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