WellLetsSee Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 (edited) Hey hey! So I will try my best to keep this as factual as I can since I would love some obejctive advice here. Situation is this: I met a guy online on chatroulette last Saturday. We chatted for 3 hours. We had some email exchange after that, but I am feeling very confused where I am at with the guy. What is your opinion? Our conversation on Chatroulette I loved chatting with him. I would have never expected to meet someone like him on CR. We talked about our families, about string theory (!), about books, about how we like sex that combines with intimacy, about travels, about what makes us happy. Respectful and compassionate guy I must say. Very average looking - not bad not good. A bit shy. Did not know how to ask for things directly - I definitely was taking the lead there, but he more and more became more daring during our conversation. Then after 2 hours or something he bursts out saying: "You are really hot". I ask him what he finds hot about me - he says: "Your smile, your eyes, the way you talk, the way you say things even if you do not really know how to say them and still manage to express yourself." That was lovely to hear and I told him that. I asked him for his mailadress after about an hour of talking and he gave it to me even though he seemed reluctant at first. I told him that I am fine if he does not wanna give me the mail and he said his reaction was only because he was so taken by surprise with my question. At the end he said, that he was so taken by our conversation, that never in his life he had talked to someone about some things that he talked to me about. He would have never expected to meet someone like me on CR. And that he was said that he lives in England and me in Germany. After the chat Anyways after that he send me a mail about half an hour later saying what an amazing conversation we had and that he is so glad that I speak English since he does not speak a word of german. Then the next morning I already had some other mail from him, with a poem that he had written when he was a young boy (nice poem actually). I was feeling a bit pressure at that time. So many mails so fast - when I meet someone new who has so much to give for me as he has, I really need time to digest all the positive input I am getting and take things slowly. But I did not want him to think I was indifferent, so I wrote to him that I too really enjoyed our conversation and that I just need two or three days to digest all the great input that I have received. After that the next day he send me 2 more short messages from my personal blog page commenting how he liked my hair style. Then two days later I sent him a message saying that I would love to talk to him again soon and was making suggestions how we could arrange to chat again since he does not have Skype installed. After he did not answer within 24 hours I sent him another message, asking whether he was upset about something I did and that I was confused since he seemed so enthusiastic at first. I asked him also whether he maybe had a gf and therefore wants to end the contact now and that in that case I would still appreciate to know this. So the next morning I received a message reading: "hey hey, I was away from my house at my mum's for two days. No computer there. lovely to hear from you... It is first thing in the morning here now, I got in late last night and I am getting ready for work. I will message more later whenI have the time to focus properly. xR." This was 3 days ago - I havent heart from him since then. So how would you judge this guys behaviour - if you want any further information just ask please. Edited April 10, 2011 by WellLetsSee More structure ya!
Author WellLetsSee Posted April 10, 2011 Author Posted April 10, 2011 Too long? Well I guess since it is too late for editing I will open a new thread with something much less lengthy.
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