Thechase1980 Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 (edited) I dated this girl for a few months about a year ago. It was not what I would consider a serious relationship. We did have a great time together but went our separate ways. Last month I get a call from her of the blue. Apparently she ran into a mutual friend and my name came up. I spoke with this friend and she told me that the girl in question could not stop raving about me. Well we talked and texted on and off over the next couple of weeks. We finally setup a date, good time but nothing physical. Three days later was date two. This time it was great and with lots of kissing. She even posted a few pictures from the evening on her Facebook page. I called her a few days later, no answer and no call back. Tried again in a few days and still nothing. To me this is very similar to what happened a year ago so I am hesitant to put more effort into it, but I don't want to blow an opportunity if she is just busy or playing hard to get. Any tips? Or is no contact and moving on the only option. Edited April 10, 2011 by Thechase1980
WellLetsSee Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 I would go no contact - if she did that before. Seems the logical option I would say.
zakfar Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 I agree with WellLetsSee. But if you are so curious, ask her directly in the next opportunity to see her. Not like you are nagging her, but just that you want to know how serious she is about having a relationship with you. There can be plenty of reasons for that, including that she might already have someone else in her life, but she enjoys her time with you and that makes her feel guilty or something like that.
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