fitandalertbrain Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 Hi Im a student and try to add meaningfulness in my life. I deserve to be loved and hope to find some help here. My girlfriend and I got into a relationship June 2010. I moved in her house immediately. Until October everything went smooth. Since october she became extremely unhappy with me for not contributing enough toward the household. My hands were tied since I didnt make too much money and her attraction toward me began going down hill. She asked me to leave the house but I wouldnt listen so she filed a temporary restraining order in October which would expire in 1 month. I pleaded with her and said I love her and stuff so she let me stay. The same thing happened again in November and December. In mid Feb both of us moved out of the house; even she could not afford living there. I got my own place. She moved in to her girlfriend's. We were still in a relationship until 3 weeks ago. This is how it went down. A little before 3 weeks we went on vacation. We got into an argument, things escalated and she decided to leave me there and get back home without me. I pleaded she still would not agree. She calls the police complaining that I allegedly stole her car for 11 minutes. Police neither arrest nor file a report. We get back home together and when she drops me home, she just flees away with my stuff in her car. I call the police on her hoping they put a BOLO for her and get my stuff back. Police refuse to because of the previous restraining orders even though they expired. Next day I call her phone but no response. That night she, her girlfriend and girlfriends boyfriend accompanied by the police stop by my house and drop off my stuff. Next day I call her phone but theres no response. The following day her phone is disconnected. I did not attempt to contact her. There hasnt been any contact with her for 3 weeks. Yesterday on gtalk she attempts to contact me. But I simply do not respond. She said to message or email her. What should I do? I really love her and miss her. My hearts been hurt since she's gone.
Beeotch Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 Your relationship sounds really dysfunctional.... 1. Moving in with someone you just started to date...not a good idea 2. If you're in a relationship and restraining orders and police reports come into play especially with your ex gf LYING to police about you stealing her car....also not good. I don't see the "love" in any of this. Just attachment and drama. I think you should work on being a student and getting your stuff together and not worry about her. I think you both have a bit of growing up to do and such a relationship doesn't sound fulfilling or sustainable for the long term. So why bother stick around for more drama for something that is going to end up in the same ditch? Better things are in store....work on yourself and your studies and leave this woman alone.
Author fitandalertbrain Posted April 10, 2011 Author Posted April 10, 2011 Well shes my first and only girlfriend that I ever had. I admit that I suck when it comes to getting a girl. So trying to get another girlfriend is out of the question. I have too much of an attachment to her and it hurts like crazy since shes gone. You all might think that Im high but Im wanting this to happen: Her coming running back to me.
dreamingoftigers Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 Wow go no contact right away and start looking at why you were in such a messed up relationship. This really isn't healthy at all.
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