BigBlack Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 (edited) how is easy it is to date brown girls for a black person? does anyone have experience with them? i am talking about brown girls from the east, like arabic girls, persian girls, pakistani girls and north indian girls I have noticed brown girls from these countries in my area are so beautiful. There are two gorgeous pakistani girls in my class that are just I am really into brown girls these, espeically the since they seem to have amazing bodies: [/url] Edited April 10, 2011 by BigBlack
mr.dream merchant Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 What you are referring to are "Desi Girls". Usually the ones from the West Indies are a little bit more liberal about interracial dating but not by much. I'm half Indian, and from what I've seen they tend to stray away from Black Guys usually due to what their parents would think, and sometimes cause they themselves aren't comfortable with it. You'd have more luck with: Dominicanas Cubanas Puertorriquenas Argentineans Irish Italians From my experience, women from those backgrounds have a mild to serious fetish for Black men.
Author BigBlack Posted April 10, 2011 Author Posted April 10, 2011 (edited) ^ nah, been there done that, i have even dated east asian girls, but for me brown girls from asia(arabic,persian,pakistani,indian) have some kind of exoctic feel and perhaps the taboo of them dating black guys, makes me even more attracted to them, because i notice they look at me with their beautiful eyes when ever i pass by them. I guess it was the same with white girls back in the day, but now days white girls have become to easy to date, almost any black guy can date them. once you get use to something, it becomes boring, thats why i am craving brown girls now Edited April 10, 2011 by BigBlack
Feelin Frisky Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 (edited) I'm a "chromosexual" myself. I like colored girls of all hues. I don't know what to tell you, BigBlack. You'll just have to put yourself out there and see what happens. I find alot of Desis and Indians to be very ambitious--you'll need to own at least one 7-11. But if you have one, you're in. Edited April 10, 2011 by Feelin Frisky
OliveOyl Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 I'm a "chromosexual" myself. I like colored girls of all hues. :lmao: Love this!!!!
Feelin Frisky Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 :lmao: Love this!!!! Oh kewl. I just made it up.
CloudLiver Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 What you are referring to are "Desi Girls". Usually the ones from the West Indies are a little bit more liberal about interracial dating but not by much. I'm half Indian, and from what I've seen they tend to stray away from Black Guys usually due to what their parents would think, and sometimes cause they themselves aren't comfortable with it. You'd have more luck with: Dominicanas Cubanas Puertorriquenas Argentineans Irish Italians From my experience, women from those backgrounds have a mild to serious fetish for Black men. Dude you should date LovelyJublee. She seems to be having trouble finding a real man. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t271876/ If in fact, she is a real person. She did post pictures though...
stepka Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 Well if it helps, I know a black man who is dating a brown girl from India and they will probably get married. I'd say you should be able to date any girl who is attracted to you so why not try?
Fondue Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 I know quite a few Indian girls (I :love: Indian women), and from what I've been told, they typically shy away from Black men. Not that they have anything against them, but because their parents/culture frown upon it. But with that said, if you meet any of the more "Americanized" "brown" girls, then maybe they'll be much more receptive to you. But yah, man. I totally agree with you. These women are beautiful. EDIT: Oh yah, I wish you the best of luck!
Mrlonelyone Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 Well I had a long on and off relationship with such a woman. The main problems we had were with what more elderly members of her family and mine had to say about it. To her that mattered as she was somewhat dependent on them at the time. A Desi woman in America who's very americanized will probably like you but like I said be prepared for their older family members to have a problem. Some of their attitudes are reminiscent of the antebellum, pre civil war, south. Some of them have a real problem accepting a black person as their full equal. It's a generational thing.
fortyninethousand322 Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 Well I had a long on and off relationship with such a woman. The main problems we had were with what more elderly members of her family and mine had to say about it. To her that mattered as she was somewhat dependent on them at the time. A Desi woman in America who's very americanized will probably like you but like I said be prepared for their older family members to have a problem. Some of their attitudes are reminiscent of the antebellum, pre civil war, south. Some of them have a real problem accepting a black person as their full equal. It's a generational thing. Some of it also has to do with racial tensions that existed between South Asian (modern day Pakistan, India and Bangladesh) immigrants living in British African colonies in the early 20th century. These tensions are why today some people accuse Gandhi of being a racist, and some of these tensions still exist today. But I don't think their attitudes are always limited to just black men. I have a friend who is white (born in Europe, came to the U.S. at 7 or 8 years old) who was dating an Arab girl. She and her immediate family (parents and siblings) were completely ok with it. Her extended family however had a big problem with the two of them dating. They essentially accused him of using her for sex (despite the fact that they had been dating for 4 years). Some girls from these cultures don't want to make their parents look bad to their friends or to extended family so they don't "date" (instead have extended engagements) at all, especially outside of the culture.
Mrlonelyone Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 That sounds about right 49322. Yes the unrest and things done in East Africa on both sides are a factor. It is notable that in east Africa the Desi were reluctant to marry into the African culture. As Idi Amin said... something like 6 of their women had married black men in the couple hundred years they had been there. He claimed that was what Ugandan records showed. If that's remotely true well then... :/ That womans close family knew him as a human being. The rest of her family knew him as a "western" "white" "American" and that's all they need to know. They know the media image of what we are like and they cannot be convinced that it's little more than a hollywood invention. I wrote a journal entry about similar problems I have had in general due to such media imaging. Check it out.
Author BigBlack Posted April 10, 2011 Author Posted April 10, 2011 one thing I love about indians girls are their bodies, this pic is really hot http://adultwebcamchat1.com/images/vefopoce.jpg
Author BigBlack Posted April 10, 2011 Author Posted April 10, 2011 I know quite a few Indian girls (I :love: Indian women), and from what I've been told, they typically shy away from Black men. Not that they have anything against them, but because their parents/culture frown upon it. But with that said, if you meet any of the more "Americanized" "brown" girls, then maybe they'll be much more receptive to you. But yah, man. I totally agree with you. These women are beautiful. EDIT: Oh yah, I wish you the best of luck! yeah thats what i have noticed, but some of my friends have dated the americanized ones, they were hot and very open minded
bac Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 how is easy it is to date brown girls for a black person? does anyone have experience with them? i am talking about brown girls from the east, like arabic girls, persian girls, pakistani girls and north indian girls I have noticed brown girls from these countries in my area are so beautiful. There are two gorgeous pakistani girls in my class that are just I am really into brown girls these, espeically the since they seem to have amazing bodies: IMO It is almost impossible unless they have no connection with their family. In all the cultures, girls can not date or have sex before marriage. Also, they are expected to marry guys who are approved by their family. If they divorce, they can not date or have sex untill their next marriage.
mr.dream merchant Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 Dude you should date LovelyJublee. She seems to be having trouble finding a real man. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t271876/ If in fact, she is a real person. She did post pictures though... Ha. I'll pass on her, let's just say she's not up to par for me. And for the OP, let me put things into perspective for you on how difficult it is for a Black Man to get with a Desi Girl. I'm tri-racial. Mixed with Indian, Black, and Native American. Throw some Cuban in there (not a race though). Women of kinds of colors, ages, creeds are attracted to me. When I cut my hair short, I look more Black/Latin. When I let it grow out, I look more Indian/Latin (Straight/Wavy hair). My Ex GF was a Desi Girl. She basically had to hide the fact that I was mixed with African American in order for the relationship to be okay with her parents. Even my grandparents weren't okay with my mom being with a Black Man (my father). They've let it go a long time ago though. So in my case, Desi Girls are cool with dating me because I'm not completely Black (If you do the math like 30% or something). But it's still not okay with their family. Hell, Desi folks look down on darker Desi folks. So you can see how much prejudice is prevalent in their cultures. My complexion is sort of a LL Cool J / Vin Diesel complexion, depends on how much sun I get. For the West Indian women, I can get them no problem. It's the Desi Girls that I have to be on my A-game for. Show them class, and most importantly show them that Indian culture is part of who I am. That's usually what sucks them in, that I actually know about the culture. When they look at me they just see another Latin guy but surprise surprise! So yeah OP, you got your work cut out for you. I suggest learning up on the culture a bit, they really do appreciate it. And yeah, Desi women are gorgeous. I'd choose one in a heartbeat over all other races. They're so classy, so fiesty, so intelligent, it drives me up the wall. There's a good amount of them here in South Florida, but not enough to see around wherever you go.
fortyninethousand322 Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 how is easy it is to date brown girls for a black person? does anyone have experience with them? i am talking about brown girls from the east, like arabic girls, persian girls, pakistani girls and north indian girls I have noticed brown girls from these countries in my area are so beautiful. There are two gorgeous pakistani girls in my class that are just I am really into brown girls these, espeically the since they seem to have amazing bodies: IMO It is almost impossible unless they have no connection with their family. In all the cultures, girls can not date or have sex before marriage. Also, they are expected to marry guys who are approved by their family. If they divorce, they can not date or have sex untill their next marriage. I think "almost impossible" is a bit of an exaggeration. The reality is that it really depends. The OP seems to be attracted to Middle Eastern and South Asian women. Of those cultures, in my experience (as someone who studies these groups) the most socially conservative of these are South Asians and Arab Muslims. Iranian (Persian) Americans are in general more socially liberal as many of them came to this country in the aftermath of the 1979 Islamic Revolution. The majority of Arabs in the U.S. are Christian and much more adapted to western culture than some of their Muslim counterparts. Also, there are lots of South Asian Christians in the U.S. (many in the Nasrani, and Syriac Orthodox sects). Perhaps the OP could keep these things in mind if he really wants to date a woman from these cultures. It might be hard but certainly not impossible.
Romeofud Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 how is easy it is to date brown girls for a black person? does anyone have experience with them? i am talking about brown girls from the east, like arabic girls, persian girls, pakistani girls and north indian girls I have noticed brown girls from these countries in my area are so beautiful. There are two gorgeous pakistani girls in my class that are just I am really into brown girls these, espeically the since they seem to have amazing bodies: I've been with one from Bangladesh back in 2004. And mind you, I'm a black guy, but when we dated it was strictly at school, never out in the public, and when we were together in college, we just played it off like friends to the people because this was her choice. But when I got her alone, boy did I mess on her (big chest, soft skin, small waist) big time. She said I was so passionate when we hooked up class rooms after hours. I just told her it's because she's someone I haven't experienced yet lol. OP, dating one of these babes with that cultural background is tricky. If you wanna do what I did, it might work easier, but there's gotta be some attraction first. More importantly, liking Indian food and knowledge of it, really helps in building that connection. Also, showing interest in wanting to know about their culture will get them talking. Must be genuine though. Another thing, OP, since you're into "brown girls" so much, is it a skin thing with you? If so, why not the sisters with caramel complexion? I've had a nice share of them, and yes the skin is nice, if you're into that sort of stuff, like I think most black men are, myself included.
Author BigBlack Posted April 12, 2011 Author Posted April 12, 2011 maybe i should tell the indians, they also have black ancestors: http://www.allempires.com/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29288
MissJoness Posted April 12, 2011 Posted April 12, 2011 bigblack, having a black ancestor will not make them want to date a black guy no more than it makes you want to date a black woman and you are actually black. just chill out because i find your desperation really humiliating for black people. i just hate it when black guys start threads like this its like do you know how you appear to everyone else?
Author BigBlack Posted April 12, 2011 Author Posted April 12, 2011 ^ i am not saying i wont date black girls, ofcourse i have dated mostly black girls in the past, but these days i am really in to indian or other brown girls Ps, are you black?
MissJoness Posted April 12, 2011 Posted April 12, 2011 yeah, my race is black. but a black girl can be 'brown' too
Author BigBlack Posted April 12, 2011 Author Posted April 12, 2011 ^ i like both african black/brown girls and asian (brown girls) from India. I am not in to really lightskinned girls.
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