all of those against relationships between older men and younger women respond

[bac]

Considering this, what age range should I look for on dating sites or irl? What range would be the most effective in dating and women would be the most receptive toward me? Besides I doubt I am what they would want anyway with the many factors listed above.

 

Since the age distribution among younger people isn't in my favor should I lie about my age so I will have options?

 

You should look at girls who turns you on and who are turned on by you as well. From what I understand, you like younger girls. So, you should look for the younger girls who are looking for older guys. Some girls will never accept an older guy as a date. When I was 17, I was that way. Some girls love to date older guys. My best friend when she was 17-18 had a great sexual relationship with a guy, 42. She had high sex drive and she could enjoy sex with an older guy. In other words, if you are able to find a younger girl who agrees to date you, it is reasonable to date her because you both want the same.

As for women of different ages, if you are looking for meaninful sex, the easiest age is late30s-40s because the women are looking for meaninful, hot sex with younger guys. If you are looking for a relationship, the best age is 25-30 because the women are looking for a relationship. Girls who are younger than 25 do not really know yet what they are looking for. They are just trying to figure out what to look for.

You can lie about your age to every girl if you are not looking for a serious LTR with her.

[zengirl]

But I have been finding girls on the young side who have very set upper limits and even go into hysterics in their profiles about guys contacting them outside of their narrow age range as if they're pedophiles or something.

 

Maybe they would feel different if we met in life instead of online but that's irrelevant when first contact will be online.

 

I'm not "hysterical" about it, but even now (at 26) I'm not fond of men outside my age range contacting me. When I was in college, I didn't want to date men beyond say 23 or so. Most of my boyfriends have been a few years older, but nothing extreme. I like sticking close to my age. Some women do. There are also women that don't. I find it a bit icky for fully grown adults in their late 20s or older to date teenagers (as in I wouldn't befriend anyone who had some sort of intent to do so purposefully or regularly did so), but I don't really care if they're not hitting on me. So glad I'm not a teenager anymore!

 

Online, I'm really strict about it, because I've set forth a stated boundary that is clearly listed on my profile. By approaching me and being outside of that age range, guys are showing me that (a) They didn't bother to read my profile thoroughly or (b) They don't respect the boundaries I've set. Both of which are kind of offensive to me, if you're contacting me.

 

While I agree it's "about life stages," I guess I find nothing attractive about someone being in a less mature life stage than they should be in their 20s or 30s or, worse yet, 40s. (Youthful and playful is a different story; I love guys who are youthful and playful at ANY age, but not "Well, I've the mindset of a college boy but I'm 30" --- I mean, that just doesn't seem interesting to me, as a woman and didn't when I was in college either.)

 

I suppose there's a difference between meeting someone accidentally who happens to be a lot older than you/younger than you and LOOKING for it. Online, you have the age information upfront. I would think much differently of a fellow who thought a girl was in her mid20s and found out she was younger after he already liked her rather than one who messaged a girl he knew was 18. Online, for better or worse, that stuff is all laid out for you. But when I was in college if a guy seemed/looked like he was my age and then turned out to be almost 30, I would've been annoyed by it and thought "Why is this guy so behind?" That said, that's JUST ME --- I graduated college at 20. Going backwards or being stagnant towards graduating lifestages has never seemed attractive to me.

 

At any rate, date who you like, but I always say to be upfront and respect a girl's age ranges, because I know how annoyed I get when men don't.

[J200]

I am 32 year old female and I am mainly attracted to guys age around 23-30 and yes, I would date a 23-24 year old guy seriously. I have never been into guys older than me and I'm not keen on getting married and don't want kids so being in a super serious relationship is not one of my priorities. I always attract very young guys since I look young (size 00, 5 ft tall etc) so that's what I end up liking.

[jessica_30]

There is no harm in dating younger women, as long as she is not below 18. It will be difficult if you will date women below 18 because you might be in trouble with them. Just date women with the right age like 18 and above.

[fortyninethousand322]

I am 32 year old female and I am mainly attracted to guys age around 23-30 and yes, I would date a 23-24 year old guy seriously. I have never been into guys older than me and I'm not keen on getting married and don't want kids so being in a super serious relationship is not one of my priorities. I always attract very young guys since I look young (size 00, 5 ft tall etc) so that's what I end up liking.

 

Even if he's a 23 year old who's finishing school and still lives at home? The problem I have is that women a little older than me (24-28) aren't interested because I'm still in school and live at home.

[J200]

Even if he's a 23 year old who's finishing school and still lives at home? The problem I have is that women a little older than me (24-28) aren't interested because I'm still in school and live at home.

 

I used to date a guy who was around the same age at me; I was just a year or two older which is nothing... At the time he was 26-27 and still living at home and unemployed. He was also schizophrenic (I didn't realize it at the time). When he lived with me I had to support him 100 percent financially.

[orangelady]

I used to date a guy who was around the same age at me; I was just a year or two older which is nothing... At the time he was 26-27 and still living at home and unemployed. He was also schizophrenic (I didn't realize it at the time). When he lived with me I had to support him 100 percent financially.

 

Ewww...I don't know how you can do that. I'd rather be alone.