Denillad Posted April 9, 2011 Posted April 9, 2011 My ex n I have been broken up since dec 2008 n nc since Jan 2011. He has been in a relationship since the break n I have been struggling to let go. It got really complicated, where each time I tried nc he would offer some crumbs but would never consider getting back together while criticizing me dating n being with someone else. I went nc after a big argument and change my number. I haven't heard a word from him nor have I considered contacting him. I found out via web that he was with the girl before we broke up n were still living together. I saw picture of the two months before we broke up and his family knew about this. I am so hurt again even though deep down this is another reason why he wasn't good enough for me. I'm such a mess right now. I'm left feeling this man used me for a greencard. Can I ever get over this? I'm left feeling used, confused, stupid, n uncertain about anything cause his love was one thing I felt I was certain about. I've thought about him everyday since nc, some more than others but this revelation is tearing me up?
Steven T Posted April 9, 2011 Posted April 9, 2011 You have to let go and move on with your life, really you do. You are a beautiful person who is worth alot better. You cant keep living like this. Dont contact him anymore, dont reply anymore just get your life and confidence back together one day at a time. You cant hold onto something that was never meant to be. Read this, you may feel better. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t272826/ There is life after love.
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