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One lesson i will always remember is that it is disrespectful to women if i pay for my dates. This mocks them of their independence.

 

I also learned that women do not enjoy men. They much rather be with other women because they are disgusted with men.

 

I have also learned to be less judgmental of a woman's sexuality and more loving of her character.

 

Im being sarcastic on some of these if anyone was wondering

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Things learned on LS:

  1. Victims will always be victims.
  2. People learn nothing.
  3. People are serially single for valid reasons.
  4. People are in the place they're in because that's what makes them comfortable. In essence, they're where they put themselves.

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It has showed me that I love foot avatars.

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LS has taught me to never get advice from LS. Every question I have about dating or relationships, I already know the answer to. It just takes time to realize it and accept it.

 

But the people here are fun. :D

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- the gender wars are still alive and well...

- LS is filled with bitter, broken people

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- LS is filled with bitter, broken people

 

Not that that's surprising, it's simply self-selection at work.

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Thread about height as a determinant in an LTR = 150 responses

 

Thread about core values and it's place in an LTR = 4 responses

 

LS is a fun place to visit, but not a good place to live. :)

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LS is a fun place to visit, but not a good place to live. :)

 

I like that analogy because it is so true. A couple of years ago this was a great place to live but I 'moved out' and became a visitor in the past year because so many 'hoodlums and thugs' have moved into the neighborhood. The property value has gone down big time.

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LS is a great site, not just for entertainment, but also for advice. There are plenty of thoughtful people who care and try hard to help. Look at Kamille's latest thread. Scan the dating forum threads. I think the advice is generally pretty good.

 

There are definitely some boneheads who get more than their fair share of attention, but the site isn't useless because of them. They are just in the way.

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I've learned that my perspectives on dating and relationships (not to mention women!) are wrong, and flawed, and a massive turn off.

 

What I think I've learned most is that I need to let go of the past, and move forward. And not be scared of rejection, because everyone gets rejected, even the pretty people.

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One lesson i will always remember is that it is disrespectful to women if i pay for my dates. This mocks them of their independence.

 

I also learned that women do not enjoy men. They much rather be with other women because they are disgusted with men.

 

I have also learned to be less judgmental of a woman's sexuality and more loving of her character.

 

Im being sarcastic on some of these if anyone was wondering

 

lol mango u are soo wrong!:)

its great if u pay for dates, but like when u are in a relationship there should be an understanding that soemtimes she pays for some nites, some nites you pay..something like that. its always nice to treat a man like a king.. hehe.

 

women like men.. more than you think.

 

number 3 is ok.

 

well what ive learned here on LS is that fighitng w/ the bf is bad..and cause break ups. hate to admit ive been in a lot of relationships, i was engaged twice. but i fight like a warrior.. i just realized to tone it down- a lot. thanks to LS :D

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hmm, learned on LS

 

-women are picky

-women are horribly judgmental

-women lack compassion for males who are unsuccessful at dating

-women have alot of compassion for females who are unsuccessful at dating

-age doesn't mean wisdom

-alot of people have an idea of 'what he should do/say/react', based on no objective parameter or logical though process, but just because it 'feels' right. This is fascinating, as it would further unbalance the dating process

-The Dunning Kruger effect

Edited by Jynxx
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