Trevster Posted April 9, 2011 Posted April 9, 2011 Well my girl broke up with me after 3 years! We hav had our ups and downs and it was rough but at the end if the night we always told each other how much we loved each other! She has been my rock for the past 3 years because I haven't had the best family and she has helped me along the way no matter what! Well when I was lied about she said it was her laststraw and we needed to talk well of course we talked and she told me she couldn't do it anynore that it wasn't healthy or we weren't good as being in a relationship! She would say things as n if I see a change we could have something in the future and then like the next couple days I would try to beg and plea! Well as a couple weeks went by I got proof that i was lied about but she would tell me it's too late and nothing I can do this time will change her mind! Nome of it seems like her! Well then all of a sudden she deletes me and my aunt from her Facebook well my aunt was saying stuff I'm her Facebook of a picture of us just how cute we looked and all this! Well like it seems like she dropped me like it was nothing to her but honestly I have been everything for her I have been her rock bc her family would always like not use her but take advantage of her bc she wouldn't stand up for herself her younger sister controls her when I'm Not around and now her sister tells everyone she is done! Her sister was n a bad relationship but went back to the dude ove and over but he cheated on her and all that! I have really just been her ground! 4 daysb4 we split up she told me she wished I asked her to marry me for Vday and 2 days before we broke up she said I was getting nicer and sweeter and the day of the break up she wanted me to bring her lunch and she let me plea my case of how I got lied about and she told me she was starting to forgive me well then she goes somewhere with her mom and that night she was like we need to talk! It all is just so confusing none of it seems like the girl I know it's like her family has finally got ahold of her bc her siste is bringing her to do stuff she never wanted to do like tan, party and go around a bunch of guys it kills me bc I know her sister can have control over her and make her do stuff she don't want to do! Now Beth won't talk to me at all noting what is there to do I'm n NC but I don't want it to seem like I gave up bc I'm not a quitter!!!! God wouldn't give up on us I wouldn't give up on someone I know reapply loves me!!!! Any good advice will help I just want a new beginning with her!!! Out with bad n with new!!!
homebrew Posted April 9, 2011 Posted April 9, 2011 You have to let her go! Respect her choice to leave, even if you don't like it. Click on my name and read the threads created by me. It will help you out. You are PUSHING her AWAY! Stop contacting her! The way you can FIGHT for her... Is by making yourself better, respecting her decision and moving on with your life. Love is a CHOICE and you can't make someone LOVE you. You want to get in her head, get your dignity back and self esteem. If you hear from her again... tell her you agree with the break up and go back to NC.
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